Can Oppressed Males SEX Their Way to Freedom?

Posted: October 2, 2015 in Uncategorized

The two videos in this post pose a very important question.

Can Oppressed non-white males SEX their way to freedom?

After viewing this video hopefully you will be able to answer that question for yourself.

I am reminded of something I heard many times growing up as to the reasons some black males pursued sex with white females.  In my experience, the two most common reasons given were:

Reason #1: “I have sex with white women to get back at the white man.” 

Reason #2: “If we keep making babies with white females the U.S. will turn “brown” and we will gain power over whites.”

Even as a young girl, I knew the reasoning behind these statements was illogical, but I didn’t know why.

I do now.

At the risk of stepping on some sensitive toes, I’m going to tackle the TENDENCY of some non-white males to EQUATE SEX (with white females) with having POWER (being “equal” to white males).

Here’s a written excerpt from the “speech” the Syrian male in the video makes:

“Europe has become old and decrepit, and needs human reinforcement.  No force is more powerful than the human force of us Muslims. Oh Muslims, the Germans say, in their economic reports, that they need 50,000 young workers. Throughout Europe, all the hearts are enthused with hatred toward Muslims. They wish that we were dead, but they have lost their fertility, so they look for fertility in our midst. We will give them fertility. We will breed children with them, because we shall conquer their countries.”

Then, let’s look at what some Syrian women (who have been left behind in war-torn Syria) have to say:
let’s tell the truth even if it hurts.

As I was listening to the two videos I saw a very CLEAR parallel between the thinking of these desperate Syrian males and some black males in the U.S.–and other black and non-white males around the world.

What all those “groups” have in common is they have been disenfranchised, driven, and/or kidnapped from their homelands and left impoverished, powerless, and oppressed victims of white supremacy. As a result of their psychologically traumatized condition, some have wrongfully equated HAVING SEX with their oppressors’ females (white females) as a blow against their oppression and a blow against the dominant white male.

BUT THEY ARE DEAD WRONG.

Let’s follow the historical pattern that occurs when one group dominates another group:

When one group of men CONQUERS another group of men, part of the bounty (LOOT) is the freedom to have sex (whether forced or voluntary) with the women of the conquered men.

We have seen this dynamic all throughout history. Unlimited SEXUAL ACCESS to the women and children is a SHOW OF POWER (however inhumane) and PROOF of CONQUEST.

It is PROOF that the CONQUERED MALES have been defeated and cannot protect their women and children from the whims of CONQUERORS, be it rape, servitude, or murder.

This “show” of power can also take the form of PUBLICLY DISRESPECTING AND/OR KILLING the women and children of the CONQUERED MALES as we have seen with relentless degradation of black females in the mainstream media and in the real life MURDERS of Sandra Bland and Trayvon Martin whose murderers were NEVER brought to justice.

HOWEVER, THE REVERSE IS TRUE when the CONQUERED MALE attempts to use SEX as a weapon against the CONQUERORS.

When the CONQUERED MALES seek out sex with the women of the CONQUERORS, they are actually reinforcing their own POWERLESSNESS by making SEX  a PRIORITY over their own liberation and freedom.

In other words, they are DEMONSTRATING THEIR OWN IMPOTENCE by placing p**ssy above the liberation of their own people AND are ensuring their continued oppression and enslavement as CONQUERED MALES.

Under the mask of “fighting the power”  they have bought into the LIE that the white male’s ice is colder and his women are HOTTER.

Subsequently, the FEMALES of the CONQUERED lose respect for the CONQUERED males of their group and will eventually lose hope for their own liberation and that of their children.

As they watch the CONQUERED MALES make the females of the CONQUEROR a PRIORITY, they will feel demeaned, marginalized, and resentful toward the CONQUERED MALES of their group who are supposed to be their PROTECTORS and LIBERATORS. And some females will seek sanctuary in the arms (and beds) of the CONQUERORS who are powerful enough to protect and provide for them.

What some CONQUERED MALES do NOT understand is:

The CONQUEROR’S FEMALES are his FEMALE WARRIORS who use their bodies to help maintain the power of the CONQUEROR. They know this also maintains their superior positions as the FEMALES of the CONQUEROR. They KNOW their POWER (and superior positions) comes from the white male power structure EVEN when they are sharing a bed with a black or non-white male.

By ENHANCING the fertility of the dying CONQUERORS via impregnating their females and producing more MELANATED offspring, the CONQUERED MALES are effectively sealing their OWN FATE AS THE PERMANENTLY CONQUERED.

Because in REALITY (if we keep it real):

If the CONQUERORS (really) wanted to stop the CONQUERED males from having sex with their females, they would KILL THEM.

Prior to integration in the U.S. this is exactly what happened if a black male was caught having sexual intercourse with a white female. He effectively signed his own death sentence.

Therefore:

LOGIC tells us  that when  the CONQUEROR POPULATION pushes sexual intercourse and breeding offspring with the CONQUERED they are doing this to MAINTAIN THEIR POWER as the CONQUERORS — by DISTRACTING AND DERAILING the will, the time, the energy, AND the understanding needed by the CONQUERED to overcome their oppression.

I have explained at length the folly of thinking that “breeding” with the white female to “brown” a predominantly white nation in my first three books in the “Interracial Con Game” chapters:

https://racismws.com/bookstore/

One more thing to consider:

Whites are ALREADY a minority on the planet, constituting LESS than 10 percent of the world’s population. The world is already predominantly BROWN yet the system of white supremacy STILL dominates the other 90-plus non-white percent.

Obviously, breeding more non-white people is NOT THE ANSWER TO ending white supremacy.

So, the answer to the question posed at the beginning of this post — Can Oppressed Males Sex Their Way to Freedom?”

is a resounding NO
 As one Syrian woman said near the end of the video:
remember the wisdom of her words:
“We all have to be one hand to get our rights back.”

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Comments
  1. Lumumba Afrika says:

    Exhibit A: Kwame Nkrukah

    • Lumumba Afrika says:

      Correction–Exhibit A: Kwame Nkrumah

      • Trojan Pam says:

        @ Lumumba Afrika

        The list is quite long of so-called black “revolutionaries” and “freedom fighters” — both past and present – who married white females or black females as close as humanly possible in complexion. It is quite clear that the RHETORIC did not overrule their SICKNESS.

  2. Miss Pam:

    Have you ever considered the raw, hurtful but truthful fact that these Coloured males simply do not wish to have melanin-rich offspring? By having whiter children, they are validated in ways that even they cannot describe.This is a very painful thing that many of us don’t wish to accept. Self hatred is a powerful disease that almost effectively kills its victims (self genocide).

    Have we, as black women, ever considered the raw, hurtful but truthful fact that these “conquered males” ENJOY sexing and breeding with white females and have ZERO intention of stopping despite overwhelming evidence that this is hurting them and us? I’ve heard many black men say that white women “feel better” in bed, are more willing and “adventurous” , make “no demands to get serious” and are not “bound by their Christian Fundamentalist upbringing.”

    Biology plays a large role in this as well.

    A child doesn’t come from a man, she/ he comes from a woman. Therefore, it’s the woman’s conscious choice as to who she breeds with. A man’s role, to be overly simplistic, is to plant his seed. He may mate with ever he chooses because the child is not from his womb.

    Many reading this will become quite upset with me for saying these TRUTHFUL things but so be it.

    We already have a group of blacks in Africa called Coloureds who are OPPRESSED just like their blacker brethren so we know for a fact that interbreeding DOES NOT WORK. We also know that Colourism has ravaged the black/brown/red/yellow communities all across the world.

    So why do we keep having this discussion?

    Why is this still an issue?

    Because some black/brown/yellow/red males CHOOSE and ENJOY breeding with white females. They like it intensely for the one thing that their own women cannot give them:

    WHITE VALIDATION

    The raunchy, porno-sex that leaves them breathless is just a bonus.

    • Lumumba Afrika says:

      This was a great comment. However I would only take issue with the idea that the “Coloureds” are oppressed “just like” the Africans in South Africa. They may not have the same privileges as whites, but they are indeed used for many purposes in South Africa which benefit them as Coloureds, one being to promote the “multicultural” meme of “post-apartheid” south Africa, and another is to occupy official government positions in order to execute domination over African people there. I know this is not a popular viewpoint on this blog, but I think it needs to be stated anyway.

      Next, I wholeheartedly agree with your statement that some African males are committed to and indeed “love” sexing non-African females as a sort-of raison d’etre. However, I sincerely think that many Black people have committed ourselves too much to living our life in these western colonial states, (e,g, the USA) which puts us on on the front-lines of witnessing the destruction of our people. I am not saying that “white supremacy” is not global, nor suggesting that simply moving to another country will solve our problems, but I am saying that the tactic of “fighting it from within” is not a viable strategy either. We who truly want to fight it must look to sources outside of the geopolitical “west” and participate in developing alternative systems of power in order to develop a different option for the youth. I don’t see this strategy being utilized at the present time (at least to the degree that would counter this IR trend). And even us who are more aware are still in the stage of simply complaining and trying to “educate” the masses of people, most of whom are hopelessly mentacidal and beyond salvation–some of my present family members included.

      • @ Lumumba

        Much Love.

        Agreed wholeheartedly. One thing though…This issue is a contagious disease and has spread, to some degree, all over the entire world. Yes, the “west” is the worst by far but it’s everywhere, unfortunately.

        I’ve pretty much given up trying to reach out and only focus on immediately family and those that can “see” and wish to actually do something.

      • Timothy says:

        @Lumumba

        Great points.

      • Trojan Pam says:

        @ Lumumba Afrika

        who said:

        “However I would only take issue with the idea that the “Coloureds” are oppressed “just like” the Africans in South Africa. They may not have the same privileges as whites, but they are indeed used for many purposes in South Africa which benefit them as Coloureds, one being to promote the “multicultural” meme of “post-apartheid” south Africa, and another is to occupy official government positions in order to execute domination over African people there. I know this is not a popular viewpoint on this blog, but I think it needs to be stated anyway.”

        —-

        I wholeheartedly agree.

        “Coloureds” (bi-racial) people have always been used by whites against their darker brethen.

        Just as they’re being used today. Yes, they are victims but not to the degree that darker skinned blacks without a white parent are.

        • Lumumba Afrika says:

          Hopefully you will find this video a little comforting. I don’t oppose people who are committed to residing in the geopolitical west nor do I lambaste those Blacks who want to breed themselves out of existence, even though I don’t agree with their decision. However, I DO SUPPORT activities like what this couple (and especially the Black woman) are doing.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ diaryofanegress

      You raise many valid points. White validation is the KEY, a desperate need that logic cannot overrule.

      You asked, why do we keep having this discussion? I harbor NO illusions that I can change the world or even the minds of most of the people who come to my blog.

      BUT — if I plant one tiny seed in one mind that is searching for an answer then I have done my job.

      The second reason is I do it for my OWN benefit– to keep from sliding down that slippery slope or accepting my own alleged “inferiority” as a black female.

      I can’t help but agree — after many, many years of acutely painful observation that you’re right — that — as you said;

      “…some black/brown/yellow/red males CHOOSE and ENJOY breeding with white females. They like it intensely for the one thing that their own women cannot give them: WHITE VALIDATION. The raunchy, porno-sex that leaves them breathless is just a bonus.”

      What is most painful to me is the INVALIDATION of so many precious, young (and not so young) black females who have been made to feel we don’t “measure up” to the white female

      That is the 3rd reason I wrote this post. To let them know that this is not THEIR problem or just a “black” problem but a sickness that afflicts EVERY non-white group that comes into contact with white supremacy

    • Mariama says:

      I am not going to lie. As much as I agree with you 100% on everything that you just said, hearing it put in this fashion was like a stab in chest. It is very painful to hear this and trying to make sense of this thinking and logic. To me this mindset is such a BETRAYAL.

    • 4daluvofblackwomen says:

      You are so off the mark it aint even funny, black males overwhelmingly procreate with black females. You seemed so focused on the negative, that seems to be where your heart(focus) is. The second most powerful motivating force is sex!! What you state is not a truth, its a symptom of black male oppression, or denial of access.Men love sex, will take it from mostly any female who offers it up without resistance. You have not met even 1% of the black males of the world including myself.

      White males offer up white females to black males as part of a sex dominance ritual called (cuckolding). It gets Wm off to be able to use black males as weak, powerless sex toys. You made a statement about their being less black males than females,their are less wm than wf too. So no I don’t expect you to dry up & not live, over 90% of males in the world are non white. If bedding your oppressor harms your people, you should stop that practice asap!! The practice of constantly trashing black males is white supremacy at it’s core!1 My question to you is do you want a world of justice? Or one dominated by racism/white supremacy? Think about your answer?? It could explain why you think the way you do!!!

    • 100% agree. As a ‘black’ man I can verify your words. A lot of ‘black’ men simply don’t like ‘black’ women, especially ones darker than themselves. When confronted on that dislike, they either lie or claim ‘black’ women have hurt them therefore ‘white’ women won’t.

  3. Sharon53 says:

    Sharon53
    @Diaryofanegress
    I am not surprised at your comments and as hurtful as the comments may be for some, a person can actually be set free by the comments. You stated that “because some black/brown/yellow/red males CHOOSE and ENJOY breeding with white females; they like it intensely for the one thing that their own WOMEN cannot give them: White Validation. The raunchy, porno-sex that leaves them breathless is just a bonus. ”
    The sad part is the only thing the black/brown/yellow/red males get in the end is the “the raunchy, porno-sex that leaves them breathless.’ Try as they might but they never have and never will get white validation. Some may have a few more privileges than others but tokens are still nothing but victims. They only get the ‘illusion of inclusion’ as some say.

  4. @ Sharon

    Sex, being the Life Force that governs the earth, is used as the ultimate weapon. Is it no wonder then why Yurugu is, by DEFINITION, an incubus.

    • Timothy says:

      @Diaryofanegress

      I agree with you Sister. Sex is a powerful life force. That is why sex must be used in the right way. No doubt that the enemy wants to use sex as a way for them to try to cause black people to not exist in this Earth. Hatred, and nihilism are what these bigots feed on. We are the original humans. We are the first, so I do hope that more black people would wake up and that the cancer of racism is eliminated from this Earth. Unfortunately, this may not come in our lifetimes.

      • @ Timothy

        Is it no wonder why the Khazars invented porno? Is it no wonder why the sacred act is defiled then peddled back to us as “adventurous fun?” And finally, it is no wonder why the sex industry business is making BILLIONS yearly with interracial sex videos?

        Since this isn’t about metaphysics, I won’t go into great detail about it but Yurugu truly is a demon. Watch A nightmare on Elm Street and take notes. Freddy Krueger is cleverly disguised but he is naught but an incubus.

        • Timothy says:

          @DiaryofNegress

          Exactly Sister.

          Real sex is a sacred action reserved for select circumstances. Evil people have perverted what sex is all about. Porno is the exact opposite of true love. Porno is about the promotion of strangers (who don’t really love each other) having sex for the purpose of exploitation. No good fruit comes from an evil tree. That porno industry has produced rotten fruit (like diseases, rape, psychological problems, human exploitation, economic exploitation, etc.) for generations including spiritual deception. That is why Black Unity is important and we have to accept the fact that some of our people will not wake up. Some of our people will wake while others will not. This is a war for survival. It is a spiritual battle. That is why positive energy must be promoted and we have to honest and treat each other right. Thank you for your wisdom Sister.

        • honeytreebee says:

          I remember you did this topic on your post many times. I remember how painful it was and how much was heaped on black women. Each woman must find what works for her in these times war is not waged by women nor is it proper for women to fight them this is for men to do. We must go where we are wanted and celebrated. How I so wish that will be with our men, but go we must…

  5. Timothy says:

    @Sister Trojan Pam.

    This is very great, interesting article.

    History teaches us that the oppressor abuse women of color globally as a way to oppress women and to oppress people of color in general in the territories where the oppressor conquered. We know that white terrorists conquered territories in the Americas and these white terrorists raped and enslaved Native American women. Many decades ago, Europeans exploited women after the Boxer rebellion in China. Also, we do know that women were exploited and raped by U.S. imperialists in the Philippines during the late 19th century and in the early 20th century. We know that black women have been oppressed and raped by white racist terrorists too. So, the pattern is the same in history. Too many males believe wrongly that if they have sex with white women, then they can be liberated from oppression. That is wrong since white supremacists own the majority of the social, economic, and political power on Earth while whites make up about 10% of the world’s population. Also, sex with non-blacks is never a way for a person to be free from injustice. Therefore, we have to realize that racists will use sex as a weapon to oppress us as black people. Sex, used in the right way, is beautiful. There is beauty and glory in Black Love. The birth of black children is a glorious occurrence. Likewise, sex can be used in the wrong way as well. Any black male who thinks that he can stop racism by laying up with a white woman is wrong, naïve, and deluded to put it mildly. The Syrian civil war today has been agitated by Western imperial policies.

    The civil war has caused the refugees crisis in Europe. ISIS terrorists have been aided by folks from Gulf State nations while many of the al-Qaeda related terrorists in Syria have been funded by the U.S. So, the civil war is complex while the system of white supremacy calls the shots in this terrible civil war. I have read that many European countries, especially Hungary have brutalized violated the human rights of the migrants. Also, some Syrian men leaving their families behind in Syria is totally disgraceful. If someone wants to escape Syria, that male should at least escape with their family. No real man would leave their family behind in a war zone. Any black person who doesn’t respect their own people is just plain wrong. We are in a war for our survival literally and we have to act accordingly. Black women should never be conquered as objects. Black men and Black women should have liberation as human beings. Misogynoir is a serious problem that must be extinguished. There is no solution to liberate black people unless we know who we are, we have to know the condition that we are in, we have to know why we exist in this condition in the first place, and we have to act (involving many actions like developing political, economic, and social unity as a community in order for us to independently achieve our own destinies). Some black people will wake up and others will not.

    We are the first humans on Earth and we will fight for justice.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ Timothy

      I agree. I considered the reasons the Syrian men left their women behind.

      One reason, I suspect, is to limit white male/non-Syrian sexual access to their women — not necessarily to protect their women but to protect their egos and sense of “honor.”

      Another reason might be the more liberal white society (sexualy loose) and they want a taste of what they have seen in their own media (american TV/movies) and this will be more difficult if their women and children are eyewitnesses.

      Perhaps some simply want to earn money and can live more cheaply without their families with the intention of sending money home and eventually returning home

      BUT Syria is being bombed, so it’s hard to buy that rationale

      I think it’s pretty clear what the intention of the Syrian male in that video is.

      He wants to STAY for the duration, BREED with the European female, and CONQUER that country.

      That sounds like a pretty long-term plan to me.

      • Timothy says:

        @Sister Trojan Pam

        I agree. I think that many Americans believe in the stereotype that Muslims from the Middle East collectively are super conservative, don’t do adultery, don’t lust after Eurocentric values, etc. Yet, many of these people do want to have relations with European white women. You made the point about a long term plan. One cultural aspect of the Muslim world is that they remember issues for centuries.

        • Trojan Pam says:

          @ Timothy

          Frankly, it sounds like the Syrian male (who is some sort of “leader”) just wants to get his freak on

          (excuse my political incorrectness)

          • Timothy says:

            @Sister Trojan Pam

            I understand you. Some males want immediate sexual contact. The Syrian male is no exception.

            • Trojan Pam says:

              @ Timothy

              I don’t blame some of the males from fleeing a nation that is under siege by the white supremacy system but I find it suspect that they have left their women and children behind knowing many will be killed.

              And then some religious leader talks about impregnating white females to restore their fertility and he thinks that’s a revolutionary act while his women and children and the elderly are dying?

              What kind of thinking is that ??

              Maybe, I’m missing some info

              • Timothy says:

                @Sister Trojan Pam

                It is truly wrong for many Syrian males to escape their responsibilities by leaving their families behind in a war zone. No one should respect a male who acts in that fashion. The religious leader who said those comments obviously has an evil mind. He is obviously a religious extremist. The mindset of abandoning a family is an example of cowardice since real manhood is about defending and protecting a family without desertion. I do find that many of these Syrian extremist groups are funded by the CIA in order to destabilize Syria (so a puppet regime can exist). Women, children, and the elderly should be protected and treated with respect. I agree with you.

          • thollomn says:

            “Frankly, it sounds like the Syrian male (who is some sort of “leader”) just wants to get his freak on

            (excuse my political incorrectness)”

            This discussion hasn’t even been up a week, and this has already been posted!

            YALL are right on the money!

          • 4daluvofblackwomen says:

            That sums up the black male in tragic arrangements, its that simple!!

        • Sharon53 says:

          @Timothy
          I agree with you when you said “I think that many Americans believe in the stereotype that Muslims from the Middle East collectively are super conservative, don’t do adultery, don’t lust after Eurocentric values, etc. Yet, many of these people do want to have relations with European white women.”
          I began to notice what you are saying some years ago. One person in particular was Yasser Arafat. Even though his wife was Palestinian, she was a bleached-blonde, Western-educated feminist. He married her in 1990 and by 2004, he was gone. Another group of so-called anti-western Arabs that had wives that looked very westernized was Saddham Hussein and some of his people. To be quite frank, I notice in this country, when Asians, Hispanics, etc., crossover, it is nearly always with a white woman. The only thing they don’t do is they don’t degrade their women publicly like some black men do. Maybe it is because they have not been hit as hard with white supremacy as black people because we are in the belly of the beast.

          • Timothy says:

            @Sharon

            Exactly Sister.

            One of my relatives was in Iraq. He told me about the culture of Iraq and the people in Iraq. He said that many Muslims there would drink alcohol, eat pork, etc. He also said that Iraq had extreme heat. It would be in the 70’s during winter, so Iraq is a very hot location. He said that many of the average Iraqis were darker in their appearance than what was shown in TV. He never told me whether he saw IEDs attacks, etc. That is a personal subject. You can guess whether he saw that or not. I remember Yassir Arafat marrying a blonde woman. He died because of a disease. Some of the Saudi princes are some of the biggest hypocrites in the world by claiming overtly to be religious, but collaborating with an Western imperialist empire (that exploits the poor Arabic people in the Middle East. The Saudi princes are known for their nefarious ways economically and morally). I have noticed that many Asians and Hispanics don’t collectively bash Asian and Hispanic women when they cross over. I do see some Asian men on the Net recently complaining about Asian women though. We, as black people, are the most hated people on Earth, so we know about white supremacy more directly (or in the belly of the beast as you have said).

  6. KofiK says:

    Excellent piece of logical and reasonable writing. I must say, it is not just the sisters that lose respect for these brothers that sleep with the enemy. In terms of manhood, men believe that iron sharpens iron. We I see brothers with these females who categorize themselves as “white”, I don’t see iron, nor anything remotely manly/hard about them. In fact, I recall Dr. Welsing saying how those relationships are just one step from homosexuality.
    I have family that have engaged in such behavior and though I greet them as I always have out of family love, I don’t see them as men, just males. So my conversations are brief with them about mundane subject like sports. When I look at and talk with their mothers, they either gloss over the subject briefly or don’t mention it at all. Instead, they make the resulting grandchildren the subject. All I can think about is Alexander of Macedonia in using these offspring as a buffer to keep the white side in power. Damn shame…

    • Providence says:

      Great point Kofik! This is KEY why no one respects Black men, esp men of other races. They are world RENOWN for abandoning their women and children for anything “other”. Black Lives Matter to others, only when they’re handling a ball on the court or field, or shucking and jiving for a cheap thrill on tv. Once these Black men go home for the day, they’re seen as just another sorry nukka who can’t fend for himself, his family, his community, his PEOPLE, hence his running to white women. No man, woman or even a child can respect that.

      • Trojan Pam says:

        @ Providence

        While I understand your angst and disappointment, we must be careful NOT to lump all black males into one pot.
        Keep in mind that the biggest DEADBEAT DADS on the planet are the white males who impregnated/raped black females for over 400 years. And that recently, the biggest deadbeat dad in America was a white male with a decent income.

        What many black females who have been married to or been impregnated by white males AND who falsely believed that the white male always “takes care of his own” — they have discovered that he is MORE LIKELY to abandon his offspring with a black female than with a white female.

        In addition, a recent study found that black males actually SPEND MORE TIME with their children than the men of any other ethnic group. (I’ll try to find that link)

        Bottom line, MOST black males do not date or marry white females. Single mothers come in all colors. Women of all ethnicities have the same or similar complaints about the men in their group. Everything that afflicts black relationships is NOT always a “skin color” issue.

        So while I stand guilty of spouting off stereotypes about the opposite sex due to my own personal frustrations, I KNOW that black males come in as many flavors as black females do.

        None of us are what we should. We are ALL victims of white supremacy.

        The real question in my mind is HOW can we be honest with each other without tearing each other down so we can HEAL our trauma? Because if we don’t find a way to do this — to heal from the centuries of damage that has been done to us — we are not going to make it AND our children will perish.

        Maybe, it’s time for ALL to set (or try to) set our FRAGILE EGOS aside and TELL THE TRUTH about our relationships

        both male AND female

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ KofiK

      Great point about Dr Welsing saying how these relationships are one step from homosexuality. Again, I talk about this “influence” in my book “The Interracial Con Game” and how a black male in a relationship with a white female is the LEAST POWERFUL person in that relationship in a white supremacy system. This “power” has NOTHING to do with how much money he has or how big his muscles or “member” is — it’s about being dominated without even knowing it.

      the white female KNOWS the black male is oppressed. that he is being dominated by racist man and racist woman but she will pretend that he is the same as any other man (when she knows this is a lie)

      She benefits from his delusionary state of mind because it allows her to control him without him even knowing it

      Regardless of all this political correctness that men and women are the same (also not true) the male is a dominant force within EVERY society. When he loses that dominance–and I’m not talking about abusing women–

      he moves down the continuum to a different kind of male being, one without power and one that is closer to homosexuality than not

      this is ANOTHER reason the white supremacists in the media and almost every profession in this society ENCOURAGE and sometimes even MANDATE that the black male date, mate, marry, and breed with a white female if he wants to move ‘up the ladder’ of success. And if he will not do that then he must choose an Asian female (anything but a black female).

      this is happening all over country, an unspoken code of conduct for black males who aspire to success in their chosen fields — and especially in the entertainment arena

      The white supremacists — racist man AND racist woman — know the most EMPOWERING THING a black male can do is to respectfully BOND with an equally respectful and loving black female and make no apologies for it.

      They KNOW the black female is like the SPIRITUAL OUTLET to his SPIRITUAL PLUG and that once they come together RESPECTFULLY and LOVINGLY, that they will generate a melanated power surge that can change this planet

      For those who think this is all some made up meandering, ask yourselves this question:

      WHY IS THE WHITE SUPREMACIST MEDIA WORKING OVERTIME TO KEEP THE IMAGES OF BLACK MALES AND FEMALES LOVING AND RESPECTING EACH OTHER OFF THE TV AND MOVIE SCREEN?

      The answer should be obvious.

      • Miss Pam:

        I’ve always felt that the moment black/ non white women get tired of black males/ non white males and CHOOSE to go on without them or CHOOSE to marry, date and breed outside of their race, black males will have no other choice but to stop and pay closer attention to this situation.

        The reason why some black males behave the way they are behaving is because deep down they know that we still love them, want them…not just as a lover but as a husband and father to our children. Trust that they know this on an intrinsic level.

        They no longer have to WORK for it because we allow them free reign to do whatever they wish and allow them to come back to us after each betrayal and indiscretion. I guarantee if we withheld love and affection from them and MEANT it, they’d straighten up and fly right in a jiffy.

        • Trojan Pam says:

          @ diaryofablacknegress

          I must agree that black/non-white males take a lot for granted and that is why I have advocated in many of my posts that black females STOP GIVING ANYTHING to those males who do not appreciate it.

          NO financial support, no free rent and board, no hot meals no “money on the books,” no lending a sympathetic ear, no bond money, no rent or car payments money — NOTHING — if black females are dealing with a disrespectful son, brother, bed mate, or friend OR one who values white /non-black females more than black females.

          and for those who think this is a one-sided, unjust statement, I guarantee you I know VERY FEW black males who would accept the level of disrespect that black females accept and still give money and help — UNLESS SEX IS PART OF THE EQUATION.

          And this is the dynamic of black male/black female relationships, that many black females are so demoralized that they do not VALUE themselves due to the LIES of white supremacy AND the behavior of so many males who have bought into it.

          I have watched the increasing disgust and deflection of black females away from black males. And many black males are rife with bitterness and puzzlement about the rising numbers of black females with white or non-black males or who have descended into homosexuality

          and while I would PREFER to see us together, my response is

          what do you want black females to do with so many black males gone from the community for one reason or another?

          Be it prison, or homosexuality, or in relationships with non-black females, or males who are acutely undesirable for one reason or another (mental illness, criminality, drug addictions, etc)– or the GRAVEYARD?

          Given that there are many more black females than black males in the U.S., what should the surplus of black females do? And how should they feel when they see the most successful black males choose anything but a black female?

          And everyone reading this knows EXACTLY what I’m talking about…

          Dry up and die? Completely forgo a relationship, marriage and a family? Or just wait until some male decides to throw them a crumb of attention or bedroom action? What should they do?

          AND I have never gotten a real response.

          I could go on at length about this but a lack of time prevents me from doing so.

          • Mr. Mitchell says:

            @Trojan Pam says, “…what should the surplus of black females do? And how should they feel when they see the most successful black males choose anything but a black female?”

            Bear in mind that the most successful black men were the least popular black boys (while in school). Because these black boys possessed zero “swag,” the black girls that these black boys desired (yes, black boys are VERY MUCH(!) attracted to black girls) ignored them and showered the bad boys (who eventually grow up to not be successful) with their attention and affection. Witnessing this, the least popular black boys feel rejected and undesired; this feeling remains with them for life, and when these least popular black boys develop into successful black men, any black woman who expresses an interest in them will be spurned because said successful black men see those black women as opportunists.

            Here is said successful black man’s thinking: “Ooh, so NOW you want me now that I have some paper, but you didn’t want me before… I don’t think so gold digger!”

            Said successful black men will apply this mentality to ALL black women even though ALL black women never rejected said successful black men while in school. The successful black man will see, in every black woman, the sexy black girl who rejected and ignored him while he was the least popular black boy in school. Thus, you see successful black men with white women. This is A reason, not THE reason, why successful black men choose white women; the least popular black boy did not get rejected by the white girl because, it is likely, that there were no whites in his class.

            Here’s what I suggest:

            1.Black girls should be taught that their affection/attention should go to the least popular black boys. Black girls, have patience. Those black boys will grow into their confidence and natural male dominance…think long-term.

            2. To compliment suggestion #1, black boys should be taught to focus on education (to develop their intellect) and to get involved in physically demanding sports (to develop their confidence and physical strength–this should help attract the black girls).

            3. Limit or completely eliminate any form of entertainment that promotes subversion of black male/black female relations from the lives of black boys and black girls. This blog has advocated that many times over. Degrading rap, tv shows, and movies should all be banished.

            4. I strongly oppose the philosophy of teaching black girls that “they need no man!” When black boys hear this being taught to black girls, they will–momentarily–feel useless and undesired. “If you ‘don’t need no man,’ I will chase women who ‘need’ me and who have ‘use’ for me–white women.”

            These are suggestions more suitable for future generations…

            Finally, black women who choose to date their conquerors (white men) strengthen the system of white supremacy and became the enemies of those who strive to dismantle the system.

            • Shanequa says:

              @ Mr Mitchell
              Bear in mind that the most successful black men were the least popular black boys (while in school). Because these black boys possessed zero “swag,” the black girls that these black boys desired (yes, black boys are VERY MUCH(!) attracted to black girls) ignored them and showered the bad boys (who eventually grow up to not be successful) with their attention and affection.

              This same situation happen to black girls who weren’t popular in school & who weren’t consider beautiful toward the popular black boys in school. But these unpopular black girls became successful black women and made something out of their lives. These black females felt the same rejection like the unpopular black boy in school who weren’t getting any play from the popular black girls.

              • Timothy says:

                @Shanequa

                I would add that Bill Gates wasn’t really popular like that in school. Yet, he made his own empire and never disrespected white women collectively. Bill Gates didn’t even blame white women collectively for his early dating troubles. We have to use chess and not checkers. The collective state of my people is much more important for me than selfish individualism.

              • Shanequa says:

                @Timothy
                I agree with you. I have come across other black men & women that has been rejected & tease as a child by other black people but that didn’t cause them to have an excuse to degrade or date outside their race.

            • Trojan Pam says:

              @ Mr. Mitchell

              Since your post is long, I’m going to address it one point at a time:

              You said, “Bear in mind that the most successful black men were the least popular black boys (while in school). Because these black boys possessed zero “swag,” the black girls that these black boys desired (yes, black boys are VERY MUCH(!) attracted to black girls) ignored them and showered the bad boys (who eventually grow up to not be successful) with their attention and affection.”

              Mr. Mitchell, I hear what you’re saying and let me add

              1) I don’t know if that’s true. Is “bad” someone who is better-looking than average? Because when I was in school, the fine boys were the most popular and they weren’t all bad. In fact, being fine often made them more callous because they got away with more stuff. The same with very pretty girls. This is just human nature. Also, all “bad boys” do not grow up to be losers. Some do quite well—once they grow up.

              And what defines a typical bad boy? Is it someone rebellious? A criminal? A gang banger? What? Because the bad boys in my high school weren’t any of that, but just someone who liked being rebellious. We must be careful not to take the easy way out with gross stereotypes that really don’t reflect reality

              2) Every group has a standard for attractiveness. Yes, girls like boys who are “cool” or have “swag” but they like good-looking boys even more. The high school jock or the handsome rich bad boy is a common theme in white movies about white female teenage angst. This has nothing to do with skin color.

              This is BIOLOGY and the way girls (and women) are HARD-WIRED to be attracted to the most ALPHA (dominant) male. Look at the white male movie stars—the vast majority are BAD BOYS. Al Pacino, Andy Garcia, the Godfather, Tony Soprano, James Bond, killers and gangsters and Clint Eastwood, James Cagney, etc. ALL played bad boys and all were considered white male SEX SYMBOLS by white females.

              3) Uncool (and not so attractive girls) go through the SAME thing because they’re not cool enough, popular enough, pretty enough, or fly enough or even “loose” enough. So, this dynamic is NOT restricted by sex or ethnicity

              4) The dynamic you describe occurs among ALL GROUPS. White males go through the same thing. White and Asian “nerds” who weren’t popular often become the Bill Gates of the business world but some nerds just stay nerds. Some unpopular boys were unpopular for a variety of reasons. I knew unpopular boys who had poor hygiene or just weren’t attractive to girls by the prevailing standard of attractiveness. Some unpopular boys become successful, some don’t.

              HOWEVER,

              MOST (mature) people DO NOT use their HIGH SCHOOL EXPERIENCES as the template OR a reason to reject ALL opposite sex members of their own group. Bill Gates was rejected as a nerd in high school but he STILL married a white female. He doesn’t spend hours of time with magazine interviewers explaining how damaged he was by white females because he was “unpopular” because he doesn’t want to sound like a fool (let’s be real, it is a foolish reason).

              I wore thick glasses for the first two years of high school and I was kinda cute but definitely not the kind of girl boys chased up and down the hall.

              SO WHAT?

              That was high school. Everyone can’t be popular. I wasn’t popular outside my little group but I survived it. Most people do.

              I’ve heard Dennis Rodman justify many times the reason he only dates white females — “Because black girls didn’t like me in high school.”

              This is a seriously flawed (and transparent) rationalization since I doubt the white girls he encountered were breaking his door down for dates

              BEFORE HE BECAME the rich and famous Dennis Rodman.

              And what about the black girls he didn’t like because they were too dark or too short or too tall or too skinny or too fat or whose hair wasn’t long enough or their skin light enough or their noses and lips not thin enough? Does he (and those who use those excuses) blame himself for their “emotional trauma?”

              I doubt it.

              If a Dennis Rodman wants to date white females exclusively OWN IT and stop blaming ALL black females for his BEHAVIOR. Most of us don’t care. I know I don’t.

              Given the HUGE number of white females that pursue and catch rich/famous black males and take ALL their money, it is amazing to me that the white female is still seen as “sincere” but the black female (who is seldom the recipient of the black male’s wealth) is not. I find that most amazing which goes to show that these males are ignoring truth and trying to justify decisions that they know DEEP DOWN are seriously FLAWED.

              And it greatly explains why most “rich” black males leave NOTHING behind for the black generations that follow them. That is something they need to think about.

              • Timothy says:

                @Sister Trojan Pam.

                Great Points Sister.

              • chuquestaquenumber1 says:

                Yet Mr Rodman had no problem marrying white Carmen Electra. Who according to his biography said to him while they were having sex upon their FIRST DATE ” Take it n____r. It’s yours.” So a white female can be racist and slutty and still be worthy of marriage.

            • Trojan Pam says:

              @ Mr. Mitchell

              The second part of my post:

              You said:

              “Here’s what I suggest: 1. Black girls should be taught that their affection/attention should go to the least popular black boys. Black girls, have patience. Those black boys will grow into their confidence and natural male dominance…think long-term.”

              Mr. Mitchell, no disrespect, but this is totally unrealistic. If you’ve ever raised a teenaged girl or boy you know you cannot dictate who they like. In fact, the more you try to push a “type” the more likely they are to reject it and will think the opposite much more appealing…

              However, I think the parents (father and mother) MUST lead by example by the types of people they surround themselves with and the language they use about other black people and how they treat and respect OR disrespect other black people. Those are very important lessons as well.

              And whose to say WHY a boy is unpopular? Look at all the “unpopular boys” who have committed mass murders in school settings? Being unpopular is not conclusive proof that a boy or a girl are superior. Some people are popular because they’re bright, intelligent and personable or good dancers or they’re friendly or generous. I don’t know what schools you attended but where I come from NOTHING is that cut and dry.

              Bottom line, everyone cannot be popular. It is NOT a death sentence and sometimes is a wake-up call that one’s appearance or behavior needs sprucing up…

              You said:

              “2. To compliment suggestion #1, black boys should be taught to focus on education (to develop their intellect) and to get involved in physically demanding sports (to develop their confidence and physical strength–this should help attract the black girls).”

              I agree that black boys (and girls) should be focused on developing intellect but not for the purpose of being “popular.” In fact, I personally believe boys and girls should be in SEPARATE SCHOOLS until they reach college age – and should only come together during CHAPERONED SCHOOL & SOCIAL FUNCTIONS so they will know how to respectfully interact with each other.

              School should not be a place where boys learn to be “popular” but should be a place where they are developed into INTELLECTUAL WARRIORS.

              You said:


              “3. Limit or completely eliminate any form of entertainment that promotes subversion of black male/black female relations from the lives of black boys and black girls. This blog has advocated that many times over. Degrading rap, tv shows, and movies should all be banished.”

              I TOTALLY agree.

              You said:

              “4. I strongly oppose the philosophy of teaching black girls that “they need no man!” When black boys hear this being taught to black girls, they will–momentarily–feel useless and undesired. “If you ‘don’t need no man,’ I will chase women who ‘need’ me and who have ‘use’ for me–white women.”

              I do agree that the language of black females (due to fear and frustration and a desire to appear powerful) is a self-defeating language.

              Keep in mind that it is much easier on the heart and ego to CLAIM you don’t need something or someone that you’re afraid you can’t get. I do like your last two suggestions and would love to see mothers AND fathers take you up on your advice.

              You said:

              “Finally, black women who choose to date their conquerors (white men) strengthen the system of white supremacy and became the enemies of those who strive to dismantle the system.”

              I agree.

              (FYI — I do appreciate your courageous contributions since I suspect you might believe you will be attacked for posting them :-))

            • The Alchemist says:

              Black guys that were nerds need to stop whining. These men that claim no black girls were interested in them in highschool never give black girl nerds, dark skinned or disabled black girls that time of day.
              They pursued light skinned and popular (cheerleader) types of black girls and got curved.
              Black guys that were nerds DO NOT have the market cornered on rejection. Get that chip off your shoulders.

            • Pumpkin says:

              Then Black men should be taught to give attenti onto the nerdy black girls because I was nerdy black girl and I can tell you it’s bull sh-t that some Black men think they have an excuse to shun ALL Black women because the dime pieces turned them down in school, while at the same time, these young black men turned their nose up at the nerdy black women.

          • Ummmmm….

            I think they honestly expect us to wait for them…even though they would never dare say so. The mentality of some non-white/black men is this:

            The only person on this planet lower than me is the black female so she should consider herself LUCKY to have someone by her side.

            Of course, this comes from self denial, self hatred and self negation.

            What I find funny is how enraged and indignant they become when they see a HAPPY and well cared-for black female in the arms of another (non black) man.

            • Sharon53 says:

              @Diaryofanegress
              I agree with you statement when you said “I think they honestly expect us to wait for them…even though they would never dare say so.”
              Sadly, what I have seen is that the more loyal black women are to some black men, the less we are appreciated and even worst, some begin to expect out loyalty. I was thinking about Actor Taye Diggs when I was reading your post. Some say when his TV series was cancelled, it was rumored that he blamed black women for not supporting it because his love interest wasn’t black. What does he expect? I wish we would stop supporting more of these famous people who want to bring home everything but a black woman. Perhaps, they will take the hint at some point..

            • Alicia says:

              whoa! This is so true and spot-on!

              In reply to:
              The mentality of some non-white/black men is this::
              “The only person on this planet lower than me is the black female so she should consider herself LUCKY to have someone by her side.
              Of course, this comes from self denial, self hatred and self negation.”

        • 4daluvofblackwomen says:

          WRONG AGAIN, YOU KEEP LUMPING ALL BLACK MALE TOGETHER!! You need to learn about white supremacy & how it works!!!

          • Trojan Pam says:

            @ 4daluvofblackwomen

            Understand that we are all speaking from our own personal perspective — and out of our own frustration. There are issues that black females feel more strongly about and issues that black males feel more strongly about.

            We will not always agree nor should we. It is only through the opinions of others that we find holes in our own. None of us are always right and none of us have all the answers.

            Diaryofanegress — whether you agree or disagree with her 100% — has contributed a lot of powerful information to our community over the years via her blog. I suggest you not sell her short.

      • Alicia says:

        I think they know it’s the “NATURAL” thing for blacks to do. prefer each other. I think we’re dealing with psychopaths who have a cruel mentality and evil heart. Not all whites, just a large percentage. The racist ones!

        Most black men are moving up just fine with a black woman or wife by his side. Whites just try to constantly suggest to black men that they do otherwise. They want to malign and hurt black women. I can’t imagine Black men doing to White women what white men do to black women!
        Evil!

  7. Miss Pam:

    Kofik makes an excellent point!

    Since Yurugu (both males and females) only posses the male principle, fornicating with them is a form of homosexuality since they cannot come to a point. Only melanin, the universal absorber can form a point or make something “whole.”

    Without the feminine principle, ALL sex becomes homosexual.

  8. “HOWEVER, THE REVERSE IS TRUE when the CONQUERED MALE attempts to use SEX as a weapon against the CONQUERORS.

    When the CONQUERED MALES seek out sex with the women of the CONQUERORS, they are actually reinforcing their own POWERLESSNESS by making SEX a PRIORITY over their own liberation and freedom.

    In other words, they are DEMONSTRATING THEIR OWN IMPOTENCE by placing p**ssy above the liberation of their own people AND are ensuring their continued oppression and enslavement as CONQUERED MALES.”
    Thank you for this post Trojan Pam. As usual it is very powerful. I will be back later to share some thoughts.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ Kushite Prince

      If you look at the CONDITION of non-white males all over the planet, how they are being killed and run out of their own countries and fleeing to Europe — what is the first thing they will do once they step foot on that soil?

      They will either seek a white female for sex or she will find them. I have read countless articles by white males and females who ridicule these non-white male immigrants and say they are child like and easy to manipulate. Oh, the stories I could repeat! I hear from an email buddy at least twice a week, a black male who travels all over the world, especially europe and he tells the most horrific stories of emotional abuse and ridicule that these non-white males endure at the hands of racist man and racist woman–even the white females they sleep with (I included some of his emails in my book, The Interracial Con Game)

      It is quite shameful and sad!!

      That being said HOW IN THE WORLD will these non-white males ever recover their nations or their freedom while laying in bed with a much more powerful, much more dominant, much more contemptuous white female person who is using their black and brown bodies for fun and sport?

      How in God’s name can they recover the manhood that was taken? they CANT

      Because — and let’s be CRYSTAL CLEAR — if I ran you out of your country and you had to go to a hostile land to eke out a minimum wage, you have lost a hell of a lot in the process — starting with your PRIDE AS A MAN..

      Once these males breed and/or marry they are LOST and in most instances will never psychologically recover. And that is a FACT

      • Very true. I recommend that everyone get your book Interracial Con Game. It really gave me a different perspective on tragic arrangements. But I think much of it is wanting validation from whites. It’s kind of silly when you think about it because they will never do that. White acceptance is an illusion. We have to face that reality at some point.

        • Shanequa says:

          I purchase the book “The Interracial Com Game” a couple of years ago which is a great book even “The Beauty Con Game.” These interracial relationships that white males & females are involve in are nothing more but a business deal for their own race personal agenda. Furthermore I have heard from many black males that stated that they are “love & admire” by every race of women but yet have no power, the only time their love & admire by non black women when it involves sex & money, and are the most oppressed men on the planet.

        • Trojan Pam says:

          @ Kushite Prince

          and that is the real definition of mental illness

          doing the same things and expecting different results.

          We will never get white validation from white people

          It is a carrot on a stick that will never be eaten

          So, for us to keep trying will only make us increasingly more mentally ill…

      • Phazex_Female says:

        Well, as the saying goes, “one cannot fight White Supremacy during the day and sleep with it at night.” That is called being a hypocrite. Truly, these type of people ARE sad. smh…

        Phazex_Female

  9. chuquestaquenumber1 says:

    Answer :NO Ask Herman Cain Bill Cosby,Jameis Winston.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ chuquestaquenumber1

      And in most cases, at least in modern times, this mental illness started with the TV/movie screen

      and that is why american/european made films and shows are shown all over the planet

      so that non-white males will grow up LUSTING after white females

      and non-white females will grow up feeling INFERIOR to them

      It is the one of the devious schemes in human history and one of the hardest to convince non-whites of just how dangerous it is

      and that goes double for all those “Empire” fans who are swallowing WHOLE the continued negative stereotyping and degradation of other people, in particular, the disrespect that is shown to black people, black mothers and black women

      • chuquestaquenumber1 says:

        Along with all the racist,offensive programming it promotes.Empire along with Single Ladies,The Game,Being Mary Jane also promotes a newer racist stereotype. All of these shows have a token white girl. Yet the token white girl is the only one who is married (to a black husband of course). The black females aren’t married .They can’t even get their own natural mate.

        • Providence says:

          @chuquestaquenumber1, great points made here, esp about Black women not getting their own natural mate. Screw cable programming, people need to CUT IT OUT and save their hard earned dollars!

  10. […] Source: Can Oppressed Males SEX Their Way to Freedom? […]

  11. @Trojan Pam
    Any form of sex with whites is mentacide. I think it still comes from self hatred. Some do it to have mixed race children. It’s a way to “beautify” their race. Anything African looking is ugly to them. So having mixed children make them feel better about themselves. They don’t want to be reminded that they are black. I think sleeping with white women is a slap in the face to all black women! We are in a war with these people. We can not lay down with our open enemy. I personally don’t trust white women. I have found them to be very sneaky and whorish. They have hit on me several times at parties and the workplace. They are very bold with what they want. They are very sexually aggressive. I had a white woman at my job that flirted with me for months. I had to turn her down many times. She had a very bad attitude after that. White women have very fragile egos. They think everyone wants to have sex with them. They are the biggest whores in the world and easy to get in paid. Rape a white woman??? Give me a break!lol No one has to rape these women. But they have everyone fooled into thinking they are so pure and innocent. I work with silly ass black men who chase these white girls. It’s so sad to see. I wish my brothers would wake the hell up! And see they are seriously brainwashed into loving these whores. We need to be with black women and show them the love they deserve. The farther we stay away from white girls the better off we’ll be.

    • truthibring says:

      @Kushite

      “White women have very fragile egos. They think everyone wants to have sex with them. They are the biggest whores in the world and easy to get in paid. Rape a white woman??? Give me a break!lol No one has to rape these women. But they have everyone fooled into thinking they are so pure and innocent.”

      Do you realize what you just wrote?

      How old are you kushite boy?

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ Kushite Prince

      I agree that it is self-hatred that makes us seek out white people, especially when it comes to breeding with them

      But I can’t go so far as to say a white female can’t be raped or that all white females are whores.

      However, interracial sex with whites is self-defeating within a system of white supremacy and the evidence of this is EVERYWHERE

      • There needs to be a clarification. I don’t mean to say that white women can NOT be raped. I was making the point that black men don’t need to rape them…since they make themselves sexually available to black men. I have had many brothers tell me how white women throw themselves at them. Also I don’t think all white women are whores. Although I know from what white men and black men have told me about them. I have had white co-workers tell me graphic details about what white women do in bed. And black men have told that white women do not use the word NO in the bedroom. Some of it is very sick! It turns my stomach to hear the gross things these women do. And these are everyday white women that do these things. White women that are doctors,nurses,lawyers,teachers etc. From my experience black women are much more reserved in the bedroom. I have never slept with a white women so I have to go by what others tell me. But I would say that white women have more more whorish behavior than black women. I’m sick of people saying that sistas are loose tramps and sleep with every man in sight. It’s simply not true Pam. The entire porn industry was started by white folks. They have made it a billion dollar industry. Not to mention countless sites showing white women with dogs,donkeys and horses. YUCK!! Who does this type of thing?? So if anyone should represent the “original whore of the planet”…it would have to be white women. I stand by that statement.

    • thollomn says:

      “White women have very fragile egos. They think everyone wants to have sex with them. They are the biggest whores in the world and easy to get in paid. Rape a white woman??? Give me a break!lol No one has to rape these women. But they have everyone fooled into thinking they are so pure and innocent.”

      1000% TRUTH!

  12. TheOriginalBlackWoman13 says:

    @ TrojanPam

    In light of what diaryofanegress stated, “Have you ever considered the raw, hurtful but truthful fact that these Coloured males simply do not wish to have melanin-rich offspring? By having whiter children, they are validated in ways that even they cannot describe.This is a very painful thing that many of us don’t wish to accept. Self hatred is a powerful disease that almost effectively kills its victims (self genocide).”

    I’m not sure if you are familiar with a group of Black Women Bloggers who call themselves BWE (Black Women Empowerment) Bloggers. These Black Women have been spreading a message across the internet for the last say 9-10 years now that Black Women need to abandon “Blakistan” (This is what they call the American Black Community) in pursuit of their own happiness and prosperity, even if it’s with non-black men because “Blakistan” is a sinking ship that can’t be saved. They (at least some of them) say they also support Black Women in lesbian relationships as long as they are living well.

    I remember not too long ago I just happened to stumble upon an old post on one BWE blogger’s site in which she and other BWE bloggers and her readers were discussing how they believe that a lotta of Black Women are in denial that we DO NOT have a male collective that is willing to protect, defend, support, and love us. They went on to say that a lotta Black Women are aware of our collective situation, but just can’t accept it. When I find that article I will send it to you to take a look at.

    Now I don’t and will never agree that IR will solve Black Women’s dating, marriage woes, but some of the things that the BWE bloggers have been saying for years about the Black Woman/Girl collective situation and the collective relationship with Black Men/Boys is now starting to be said by Black Women Bloggers (and black women and girls) across the board.

    It’s just sooo very sad that many Black Women are coming to these kind of conclusions and many Black men are not even trying to prove these conclusions wrong.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ TheOriginalBlackWoman13

      I totally understand their frustrations HOWEVER, what they advocate is NOT a solution for the masses of black females. We bear boy children. What then will be our attitude toward them? Will they be as disposable as the black male adult population?

      And let’s be clear. A lot of us are raising boys TO BE disrespectful toward other black females. I have seen this many times. Calling young black girls all kinds of names when they come around our homes. “Don’t bring that ho back over here!”

      The way many (not saying all) black females treat each other is appalling and yes, I understand it is a reaction to white supremacy

      BUT

      when will we own our own S (stuff)? When will we turn that critical mirror on ourselves?

      What are WE teaching our sons as we parade around with our female lovers, OR when we openly exhibit (and sometimes brag about) our cunning and conniving and dishonest ways (getting over) or when we’re openly condemning all black males within our son’s earshot?

      “black men ain’t shit and neither is your daddy, the worthless bastard.”

      What about the language we use regarding other black females? “I can’t stand that (fill in the blank):”

      BITCH
      HO
      SLUT
      TRAMP
      or THOT (That Ho Over There)

      And yes, many so-called “conscious” black females are NOT all that embracing OR accepting of other black females, usually for trivial, nonexistent reasons. I have discovered that to be true personally.

      Years ago, I had a black female send me an email asking me to do a internet program as a guest. She addressed the email to me as “Brother:”

      However, when I responded and let her know I was a black female, the invitation was withdrawn. And most black females with an internet program have NEVER invited me on as a guest.

      BUT whenever I bring up the issues of black females, I get “silence.”

      That says both black males AND black females are doing too much finger-pointing at someone else — never back AT SELF

      I say all that to say that ANY SOLUTION that does NOT embrace the whole of us — black male AND black female — is DOOMED.

      if anyone disagrees with this, please show me an EXAMPLE of any other ethnic group that has gained stability and power without the male and female of THAT GROUP working together? Please, just ONE example

      Look at racist man and racist woman, the most powerful duo on the planet. Yes, they have their battles and issues and mutual dislike (even hatreds) but when it comes to outsiders (all non-white people), they COME TOGETHER TO MAINTAIN THE SYSTEM OF WHITE SUPREMACY

      Yet, we’re talking about not needing each other and being with our oppressors as a solution? I wholeheartedly disagree with that.

      But, something MUST change and the change must start from WITHIN

      every black male and black female reading this needs to worry MORE about changing themselves– ourselves– than with changing someone else

      because I guarantee you there is PLENTY OF WORK WE NEED TO DO without needing to step ONE FOOT outside our doors.

      this false belief on both our parts that we don’t need each other will be the main reason it will be so easy to slaughter us in the future

      OUR DENIAL AND DISUNITY.

      • Providence says:

        *applause* I wholeheartedly agree. We’re all accountable in our collective destruction. Therefore, we can only fight this slow destruction TOGETHER.

      • Phazex_Female says:

        Yep! As I stated before, “false pride and arrogance…””

        Phazex_Female

      • TheOriginalBlackWoman13 says:

        @ TrojanPam

        I co-sign 1000%. I noticed that an increasing number of Black Women bloggers across the board (even the BWE and IR Black Women bloggers) including other Black Women are addressing this issue of how we Black Women and Girls treat each other(I am starting to address this issue as well and I have spoken about it with other black women as well as written about it on my blogs). And that’s a good thing. I’ve witnessed and experienced the same mistreatment from other Black Women that you spoke of above. From preschool, to primary school, to elementary, to middle, to high school and even now I have been mostly bullied and mistreated by other Black Women THE MOST and saw Black Girls and Women mistreat each other. It was and is awful experience for me not to mention a SAD sight to witness.

        Black Women vs. Black Women is putting a HUGE dent in our sisterhood (black female/black female relations, a dent in black male/female relations as well as Black solidarity people as a whole. I remember I came across an article a while back in which a Black Woman wrote a letter of forgiveness for mistreating other Black Women and Girls in the past. Now, that’s a great start! I’ve liked how she saw the problem and the part she played as well as making the effort to mend and heal. When I get a chance I am going to try to find that article. Like you say, we have to start by changing ourselves.

        As for the Black Female internet programmer I’m willing to bet you $10 she withdrew your invitation because she saw you as competition in counter-racism, which is very,very sad. We ARE NOT each other’s competition.

        • Trojan Pam says:

          @ TheOriginalBlackWoman13

          Thank you, thank you, thank you!

          I had lost all hope in getting a response from any black female that comes to this site. It seems that whenever I tell us to look at our OWN BEHAVIOR, there is a defiant refusal to do so which takes the FORM of PRETENDING that I never said it.

          ?????

          I was debating whether to push this issue until I got a response because if we AS black females cannot OWN our own S (stuff) then we are NOT SERIOUS ABOUT DISMANTLING THIS SYSTEM

          This is NOT a bash-black-females conversation, this is a STARTING WITH SELF conversation. I think it is self-defeating to tell black males what they are doing wrong if we are NOT willing to look at what we are doing wrong.

          I think it is self-defeating to talk about validating each other and supporting each other when black females are mistreating OTHER black females at the same time we are spouting off about “counter-racism”

          How can we expect to be respected when we do not respect each other??

          This blog was not created to AIR personal grievances against the opposite sex.

          It is NOT social media.

          It is NOT Facebook.

          It is not about personal relationships and patting each other on the backs.

          This blog was created to assist the victims of white supremacy in dismantling the system of white supremacy

          PERIOD.

          If I am not accomplishing that then I would strongly suggest that those who are SERIOUS about solving the biggest problem on the planet –white supremacy– to find another more constructive use of their time

          In the meantime, I’m going to keep it real.

          Whenever I address issues that black males have, either I get one or two responses OR I get defensive, finger-pointing responses and a barrage of responses from black females about the wrong-headed-ness of black males.

          AND whenever I address the issues that black females have with black males AND especially with each other I am usually IGNORED as though the words did not appear on the page

          That, to me, is a HUGE RED FLAG that the people who IGNORE ME are probably the MOST GUILTY of this behavior and have NO INTENTION of changing it.

          because if we–black females– cannot behave in a civil and civilized and HUMANE manner with other black females (for whatever reason– immaturity, jealousy, envy, pettiness, insecurity, anti-black-female-ness, confusion, depression, post partum, personal issues, etc)

          then we are NOT SERIOUS ABOUT FIGHTING WHITE SUPREMACY

          If I have offended any black female (or anyone else) reading this it is time to ask yourself

          why?

        • Trojan Pam says:

          @ TheOriginalBlackWoman13

          Do you have a link or remember where you saw the letter from a black woman’s letter of forgiveness for mistreating other black women and girls in the past? I would love to post it.

          and yes, I feel the black female internet radio programmer saw me as a threat rather than an ally. It’s very unfortunate.

          It is important we address this issue because the behavior (aided by black reality shows) is getting worse. Add to that, the REAL shortage of available males and things will only get worse UNLESS WE ADDRESS IT WITHIN OURSELVES,

          we are just as reluctant to address our behavior as black males are.

          that is the bottom line

        • Alicia says:

          There’s a lot of things going on in this world that I can’t understand: Young black men so willingly taking up lives of crime given our history, racism, hate, cruelty to animals, and so forth. One of the major ones has always been why black people are not kinder to each other. As a black woman, I can’t understand why black women can be often so harsh and aggressive towards other black women. I am living in the same society yet don’t feel any need to hurt or harm or bully, I just don’t understand most human beings a lot of the time.

  13. TheOriginalBlackWoman13 says:

    @ TrojanPam
    speaking of your email buddy, I’ve purchased and read IR Con Game a few years back and the stories he told about black males making complete utter fools of themselves just to have that “white prize” was absolutely amazing; It blew my mind! I didn’t know that IRs cause so much damage to Black People. That’s why I have a full OVERstanding now of why Dr. Fuller and Dr. Welsing keep preaching, “No sex with whites!”

  14. Providence says:

    Ok, let’s be honest, people. SOMEONE is raising these black boys to grow up thinking its “okay” to date interracially. I’m not blaming my beautiful Black sisters, but I gotta keep it real a little bit. As mothers, I don’t think we’re doing *enough* to warn our Black boys to stay away from white (brown, red, yellow, etc). We don’t complain until these little boys grow up and start dating beckies and bonitas, and then we wanna act all shocked.

    By that time, ITS TOO LATE. We, as the first women a Black man will ever know, should INSTILL NATION BUILDING IN OUR CHILDREN FROM THE WOMB. That’s right, talk, sing, read to your babies about their ancestors and Black history in utero. Save your coins and GET RID OF CABLE, GET RID OF CABLE, GET RID OF CABLE, GET RID OF CABLE, GET RID OF CABLE, GET RID OF CABLE!!!!! I can’t stress that enough. This is numero uno in brainwashing our children. Right before my eyes, in the past few years alone, I can see how filthy and perverted (and racist) and UTTERLY USELESS cable programming has become. I don’t even watch that much tv, but you know its bad when nature shows don’t even show NATURE anymore, but stupid ‘reality’ programming, like “Mountain Men” or “Redwood Kings”. What? And would it KILL them for History Channel to show actual HISTORY, instead of Ancient Aliens all the time? Anyway, back to Black men…

    Ladies, we need to breastfeed our Black babies or try our best to. They turn out smarter (and slimmer) that way, plus its cheaper on our pocket. Homeschool is hands-down best for our kids b/c public education, right after the entertainment industry is SYSTEMATIC and DEADLY in the slow destruction and tearing down at our kids collective esteem. Imagine 15 years of this poisonous brainwashing of our kids IN and OUT of school, its no wonder that even in MIDDLE SCHOOL Black boys and girls literally HATE each other. We’ve all seen it.

    The Black girls on average do pretty well in school, but the Black boys are already being set up for academic failure by being unfairly targeted as “aggressive”, treated more harshly, and placed into special ED, etc. They cope by entering sports programs or becoming class clown. Checkmate by the school officials, they’ve done their job of placing our boys in one of these two groups. Next comes the “white” friends these boys make as they develop their athletic prowess or hone their quick wit. This becomes the beginning stages of white boy envy of Black boys and white girls start taking notice.

    This journey goes well into High School when Black boys cement their status as alpha males, and are considered “cool” by other boys and “hot” by other girls. Even though most of these Black boys are likely not performing nearly as well academically as they are athletically (or comically) — but this doesn’t matter. The Black boy has gotten his FIRST TASTE of white validation not from adults, but from his PEERS, and being seen with a Black girl in any capacity is a THREAT to his validation. Checkmate. Remember, Black girls are completely IGNORED in this whole process. Any hostility a Black boy has toward a Black girl, his “natural mate” as someone previously stated, is further solidified during these crucial years of development.

    • Phazex_Female says:

      ” The Black girls on average do pretty well in school, but the Black boys are already being set up for academic failure by being unfairly targeted as “aggressive”, treated more harshly, and placed into special ED, etc.”

      I have witnessed this over and over again. How right you are! This is why it is imperative that Black mothers not only learn this racist system, but educate themselves as well.

      And sistas? “if you can’t feed ’em? Don’t breed ’em.”

      Our children deserve our BEST.

      Phazex_Female

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ Providence

      You make some very valid points, especially regarding the CABLE!

    • Pumpkin says:

      no, the last thing you want to do is “warn” not to date interracial because then it becomes forbidden fruit. Focus on instilling a love for themselves as Black people instead. We have to compete with all these white supremacist images from birth, so for starters black women should start wearing our natural hair and emphasizing black beauty from a young age. Not excessively praising or putting up pictures of white/light women.

  15. Sharon53 says:

    @Mr. Mitchell
    Your statement that successful black men choose white women because black girls rejected them back in school is just another excuse piled on top of the other excuses some black men have for rejecting black women romantically. This is not the first time I have heard this excuse and it seems to have come out of nowhere starting in the 1990s. I had never heard this prior to that time, and I believe it may have started with that character Urkel on the TV show “Family Matters.” That’s when I started hearing people refer to black men as nerds. Prior to that time, I only heard people refer to White and Asian men as nerds. Guess what I have never heard no other race of men collectively use some silly, childhood foolishness as an excuse for rejecting the women of their race. To be truthful, black girls, myself, included were teased and called names. I was called ‘nappy-head’ and rejected because I was so thin. That has never caused me to want to turn my back on black men.

    Another thing is you stated “witnessing this, the least popular black boys feel rejected and undesired; this feeling remains with them for life, and when these least popular black boys develop into successful black men, any black woman who expresses an interest in them will be spurned because said successful black men see those black women as opportunists.
    Here is said successful black man’s thinking: “Ooh, so NOW you want me now that I have some paper, but you didn’t want me before… I don’t think so gold digger!”

    Referring to black women as “gold diggers” is something I had never heard of until the 1990s also. Actually, white women are the ultimate gold diggers so why are they given a pass and not black women. Again, just another flimsy excuse.

    Something I notice sometimes when black men offer excuses for rejecting black women is they often contradict themselves as you did when you made the following statement:
    “4. I strongly oppose the philosophy of teaching black girls that “they need no man!” When black boys hear this being taught to black girls, they will–momentarily–feel useless and undesired. “If you ‘don’t need no man,’ I will chase women who ‘need’ me and who have ‘use’ for me–white women.”

    Please explain how a black woman can be a “gold digger” but at the same time, say she does not need a man.

    What it boils down to, is some black men finally got what they want, a white woman. Back in the day, the woman that got first choice was the light-skinned black woman but what the white supremacists have done is made all these non-black women available to black men. So why choose a light-skinned black woman when he can now have the real thing.

    This blog explains how the many problems affecting black people have to do with white supremacy and how it has also infected the entire world. The only thing we can do is control our own behavior, especially toward each other and we can start by stopping this blame-gaming because nothing is being resolved this way.

    • Providence says:

      @Sharon, great post! We’ve all heard that “back when I was a toddler a Black girl took my toy….” sob story… of course every Black man with a non Black woman was a straight-A student back in kindergarten, lololol….

  16. Providence says:

    It is CRUCIAL that we as the mothers, aunts, sisters, friends and relatives of these Black boys are aware of how we are being strategically DISTANCED from our Black boys from such an early age. I recognized this in my own (relatively mixed) high school in the late 90s. IRRs wasn’t that prevalent back then, but to see Black boys being worshipped by whites on the football field and basketball courts, meanwhile being harshly mistreated by school officials in the classroom and gunned down by police (and eachother) outside the classroom was a strange paradox for me to process as a teen, but I still RECOGNIZED it.

    As Black women, we need to recognize Black boys are being GROOMED from an early age to be idolized for nothing more than their physical attributes (or quick wit). After years of neglect and mistreatment as a child by “the system” (and even from home in many cases), once a Black boy gets a taste of this idol worship of his physical prowess, he’ll do just about anything to protect that. Black girls factor NOWHERE in this equation, the only female interaction a Black boy TOLERATES at this point is from the women/girls in his household. They are NOT trying to date, befriend or be kind and polite to Black females, b/c quite frankly, they do NOTHING for his status that a white buddy or white girl can.

    My Black sisters, we need to be hip to this. This is the breeding ground sowing seeds of division and strife of Black boys towards his natural mate. When he starts dating IRR, we wanna act all shocked. Well, we shouldn’t if we aren’t having a SERIOUS conversation of that in the home (if she can’t use your comb…). I know MANY mothers guilty of this, including mine. She thought if she NEVER taught about race, we wouldn’t see race. Well, even though we were the children of African immigrants, and we knew we were very um, ‘different’ from our African American brethren, we all got our nigger wake up call soon enough.

    My brother wasn’t a jock nor a comedian, but a straight-A, straight-laced student who got the attention of ALL girls — but he internalized his racism and ended up marrying a white female. No one says anything about it my family, we all pretty much pretend as if its okay. My sisters fawn all over his biracial boys, and he and the wife are teaching their boys ‘not to see color’. They are already identifying themselves as “not black, not white, but “Josh””. How STUPID. And my sisters, one of whom is painfully SINGLE acts like she doesn’t care when I KNOW how much it hurts that she’s in her 30s with no man in sight b/c of people like HER brother.

    • honeytreebee says:

      Some things that can be done is to limit contact with the oppressor. We had a chance to do this in Chicago with the school closings. Why not have our own schools where we can set the agenda and stop the harassment. Granted we are a broken and damaged people, but surely we can get some things right and it would be a lot better than what we have now. we have the resources to build our own, but will we leave and be among ourselves is the big question. Until this is done we will not gain back our freedom and self respect. To be a revolutionary now is to be self sufficient, own, strive for it and educate our children and ourselves outside of our enemies.

      As for women there will be many who suffer due to this situation. Every woman will have to decide which is the right way for her. I can not ask black women to give up and sacrifice anymore than they already have. Battles are for men to fight not for women and children. There is a saying my grandfather used to say. That no people are truly defeated until the hearts of their women are shattered, torn, and broken on the ground and that no man can do this but her own.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ Providence

      Thanks for sharing that information. We are watching this mentacide happening right under our noses and in our homes and families. We must develop ways to deal with it.

    • Alicia says:

      Interesting. Some, when discussing black men/white women relationships in England, were mentioning this exact same thing. They were saying it makes them feel better in a way to have a white woman.

      re:
      “once a Black boy gets a taste of this idol worship of his physical prowess, he’ll do just about anything to protect that. Black girls factor NOWHERE in this equation, the only female interaction a Black boy TOLERATES at this point is from the women/girls in his household. They are NOT trying to date, befriend or be kind and polite to Black females, b/c quite frankly, they do NOTHING for his status that a white buddy or white girl can.”

  17. Providence says:

    I know too many Black women, be they mothers, grandmothers, aunts or other relatives raising young Black boys, who don’t make the concerted effort to teach these boys from a young age to stay the EFF away from ‘others’. I don’t care if they’re asian, mexican indian or arab, these Black boys need to know that those annoying Black girls are their NATURAL MATES, bump that ‘love sees no color’ BULLSHIT. We as Black women are aiding in our own self destruction by 1. not raising these boys properly in the first place 2. not aggressively instilling nation building and Black self-love and self-pride and self-awareness 3. fall for the hype (love sees no color) and pretending that its ‘okay’ when a Black man wifes an ‘other’ when its a smack to our collective faces.

    I personally stay the EFF away from my white sister-in-law, I don’t shuck and jive around her like my sisters do. Its caused a bit of a rift, but I really just don’t care, I’m too old to PRETEND that what my bro did is ok. I’m a married woman with a BLACK husband and BLACK kids myself, yet even I HURT when I see these STUPID Black men parading white women and children and expect me to think that ISH is ok — well, it ain’t. Black women are always forced to cater to the needs of everyone else but ourselves.

    It kills me seeing my sisters (and other BW) protect this WW and her femininity and right to live and love and be happy, with no reciprocity in sight. What a joke. Black women and OUR femininity, is NEVER embraced, celebrated or even acknowledged, so why should I care what THEY go through? Please. We need to stop hanging around these women with Black husbands and sympathizing with THEIR IRR woes, and pretending we’re cool with their union b/c our Black brothers, friends, relatives, etc EXPECT us to. We need to STOP supporting these unions by NOT befriending such people IN THEM, and stop supporting these Black men who insist on destroying OUR community by wifing these women who only benefit from our communities.

    Stop paying for cable, stop paying to see their movies, stop supporting them emotionally and financially. Instead, invest that time with the brothers that ARE with Black women, marrying them, emotionally and financially building with them, and producing, loving, protecting and providing the BLACK families that they create with these BLACK women.

    Talk is cheap, I know too many Black men famous or otherwise, who say all the right things but go to bed every night with an ‘other’ ie Van Jones, Dave Chappelle, Cornell West, etc. I can’t fault Black women for seeking relationships outside of Black men, my sister doesn’t want to date out, but while she’s shucking and jiving for Tyrone and Jane over there, she knows she has NO choice but to put herself out there. As if dating isn’t hard enough, SMH. The sheer EMBARRASSMENT Black men have put their women through SICKENS me to my stomach. We shouldn’t have to resort to seeking IRRs with men we don’t trust, or even worse, LESBIANISM to find some level of companionship and comfort. Luckily, I’m surrounded by enough BM who know what time it is, and I’m grateful for them and STILL hold out hope for our future generations. I know we can do it if we continue to have forums like this — where there’s a will there’s a way.

    • Phazex_Female says:

      “I thought I heard a door SLAM on the sista’s way out?” Oh, I did!

      SLAM! Dam well stated and many of our people need to “wake up and pay attention.”

      • Providence says:

        lol@Phazex, thanks sis, its a hard pill for some to swallow, but we’re all grown folks up in here – enough of the politically correct BS already. We’re all guilty of this to some degree. Its time to tell it like it is, take charge of OUR families, act accordingly as better role models to our young ones, and raise them RIGHT so our hopes and dreams for them can be materialized.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ Providence

      This is why white supremacists PROMOTE interracial sex and marriage. What better way to hit our UNITY than right in the family? There is NO WAY IN H a black family can fight white supremacy when there are members of that family who are married to or have bred with white people

      As soon as that white dynamic enters the equation, black people lapse into denial and fear of saying ANYTHING that will “offend” the white person or the confused person married to one.

      And when the grandchildren/offspring are thrown into that equation, maximum damage results. Now, the brown and dark children are made to feel inferior to the offspring and a lot more confusion takes place

      this IR strategy has made it almost impossible for black unity to occur — all by design.

  18. Shanequa says:

    @ Everyone
    I want to hear your opinion on this news article. I’m going to they post off just a little but this situation will effect us as well. You already know that Asian men are migrating to Africa as well as living & doing business there & they are marrying the BLACK African women. In China they are having a crisis because they have too many single Asian men bachelor’s. Please remember China use to have a one child rule & some were killing off their daughters because it wasn’t a boy. Since we live in a society that feels Asian men are least desirable & BLACK African women as well. I strongly believe these Asian men will marry African women as their last options especially to built a family. Since we live in a time with so much anti- blackness being spread I can see a big rise of Asian men & African women relationships. This remains of reading William Chancellors book “Destruction of Black Civilization” on how he mention that the foreign non black African men were marrying the BLACK African women which led them to eventually take over the land. Since Caucasians & China are having a population problem there last results will be to marry BLACK Africans.
    https://www.hongkongfp.com/2015/10/02/china-begins-countdown-to-bachelor-crisis-as-over-33-million-extra-men-come-of-age/

    • Timothy says:

      @Shanequa

      Thank you for showing the link Sister. Since the link talks about many issues, I will discuss about China first. Historically, China had been made up of dynasties, tribes, and other cultures. China has been exploited by European powers for centuries. The British used the Opium War to destabilize and control Chinese people. The Boxers rebelled against Europe and America, so the Boxer Rebellion was defeated by Europe and the U.S. China worked with the Allied Powers during WWII. During WWII, Japan was the strongest nation militarily in Asia. After WWII, China became the strongest nation militarily in Asia (as Japan was defeated). Mao existed after WWII to rule China. Ironically, the Western intelligence community supported Mao early on. Mao was an ally of Stalin. Nixon met with Mao to as a way for him to promote his triangulation plan. Today, China has massive economic growth. One problem in China deals with overpopulation and an unstable currency, which is why their markets have been unstable. The one child policy has caused more men than women in China. This has caused a social crisis.

      Social crisis readily leads into massive migrations of Chinese men into other parts of the world. Also, the one child policy has been sexist since many girls have been victims of infanticide in China. I will never believe in coerced population control. China has been in Africa to expand its resources. Many Africans trust the China more than Americans and Europeans, because China had no massive involvement in the Maafa. China traded with Africa for centuries, but Europe has a more intensive colonialist history in Africa than China. Yet, we shouldn’t sleep on China. China wants power. There has been intermarriage between Chinese people and Nigerians (there has been many Asian men marrying Black women) now as Nigeria is a strong oil producer and Nigeria has the greatest number of black people in a country on Earth. Black women are scapegoated by white supremacists. Black women should be respected of their humanity. I believe in Black Love and Black Unity. Our allegiance is to Africans not to Chinese expansionism (and not Western imperialism especially). So, we should trust our people. Our true allies are black people ultimately.

      Enjoy your Day Sister.

    • Courtney H. says:

      @ Sister Shanequa:

      Thank you for providing the link. It was very interesting. Here are two articles about the Chinese in Africa and the repercussions:

      http://www.businessdailyafrica.com/Corporate%20News/-/539550/682502/-/item/1/-/aetkcxz/-/index.html

        • Timothy says:

          @Sister Courtney

          Thank you for the link and the video. One disturbing part of the link was when one Chinese poster admitted that: “…However, she’s one of those very pretty high-end black girls. She’s very slender and not one of those fat auntie types. Her skin also isn’t the kind of oily/greasy black but rather black-brownish and more brown….” This quote is highly disrespectful to black women and it shows that many non-blacks want to marry black women for a fetish or for the spreading of their resources. In the twisted minds of these elitists, they want to control women for their own interests of control. I trust black people. That is why I advocate black people to plan for short term and long term strategies in dealing with this situation, so our black people can flourish in the future.

          • Courtney H. says:

            Brother Timothy:

            I watched this same video about two or three years ago, and I remember that racist response. As we’ve discussed before, Black women are sexual fetishes, which is part of the exploitation of Black women.

            Thank you for reading the article and watching the video. I greatly appreciate your wise words, Brother.

    • Mr. Mitchell says:

      @shanequa:

      The Chinese are colonizing Africa…it’s a soft colonization. I also heard, but cannot remember where, that the Chinese are taking over some parts of the Caribbean, too. Every race exploits blacks.

    • thollomn says:

      https://www.hongkongfp.com/2015/10/02/china-begins-countdown-to-bachelor-crisis-as-over-33-million-extra-men-come-of-age/

      I have heard about this for YEARS! They are also building “ghost” towns, but for whom? I think we all know the answer.

  19. Alicia says:

    What happens when you date or marry or pursue white men or women is that you are forced to be around them, in white areas, doing white things! What black person would want that given that while a few are not racist, the vast majority have a hate issue. Not saying that blacks or any non-whites are perfect either, but white supremacy/white racism is a whole different beast. When I lived among Hispanics, although they have a racism issue, latinos and black women as well as latinas and black men often dated. I never felt that there was an issue with me and my womanhood ( as a black woman) unless I’m around Whites.

    When I go to heavily white areas, as opposed to majority Asian or Hispanic or other, there is a whole vibe that I sense, particularly if I’m by myself. If I’m around them long enough, “something” tends to happen.

    I used to live in a heavily white area and didn’t mind it for years. I recall when certain events either in the media or just certain tides roll by in mood ( or however you say it), the racism would come out. I remember some white young ladies peering so hatefully at black kids in a public library I visited to pick up some materials only the libraries had. I experienced this set of white teen girls who were near my window and as I peered out they gave me such a hateful, aggressive look. there were other occurrences.

    What black person would want to live in the midst of that? Black man or woman? I don’t get it.

  20. Mbeti says:

    From this article and the comments I get the impression that the agency of black males and females is
    overemphasized and the agency of specifically white females is underemphasized.

    this esp applied to african americans
    we are involuntary immigrants whose every aspect of life is monitored manipulated and controlled by
    both white males and females.
    I numbers in this territory are limited and deliberately so externally and interally.
    In regards to the afrocentic figures that married white females, my experience has been that it is
    not just that white women actively seek out black males in the most ruthless manner possible ,but with the full support of white males and most black people especially black females.

    Most black females I know and see are the biggest supporters of white racism.
    the hair,the religion etc
    but most importantly in communication,its extremely rare for me to have any honest dialogue about racism with a black female.
    black male ,white male,white female and any other but black females last and least.
    Part of the reasons for this are in the extreme bais in entertainment representation as so insightfully described in previous posts.
    I not blaming black women or expecting more agency from them ,then black males including myself and even white people and others.

    Its just that in my experience the opposition is so great against choosing a black female for a mate esp if your in anyway intellectually inclined that to say those black males including myself that choose or prefer a white female ,don’t like how they look ,want white children etc

    Is to ignore the obstacles and pressure and assign more agency than is there.

    I have seen many a black male with a white female and seen the look of fear and powerlessness as well.

    what we need is effective advice and strategies for how to deal with this specific type of racism.

    • Timothy says:

      @Mbeti

      From my experience, the most consistent supporters of the cause of black liberation have been black women. Black women have stood in the front lines against police brutality, against discrimination, for Jena Six, for the family of Trayvon Martin, and against the prison industrial complex (which has harmed the lives of black men and black women). Most of the most conscious black men that I know are either middle aged or older. It is true that white women and white men do work together in trying to disrupt the relationships among black men and black women. Divide and conquer is a well known strategy of white racists. The enemy of racism/white supremacy is pernicious and always evil. Also, there has been an increased amount of black women wearing natural hair. There has been an increase of black women graduating from college and working in their jobs. I have talked with very intellectual black women too. So, a solution will have to be comprehensive in scope. Also, I have great conversations with black women about racism in the Internet and outside of the Internet. Certainly, the important thing is to discuss about these issues, create strategies, and enact solutions.

  21. LBM says:

    Good topic PAM. Indeed this angle has not been laid out enough. The issue of black males/white females seems to always fall back on the rejection of black women or what black women are or not. Rarely is it framed as black males wanting to be like white males – hating how they look and thus wanting to produce beige (not brown) children – not linking the production of these beige boys with the destruction of themselves/black boys (or maybe they do) as well as the trap being set for them by white male and female through white female.

    The mistake too many black women have made is not in raising these boys but in conceiving them – without a reliable, present mate from the start and through that carriage/labor. So that has to stop.

    The other thing that has to stop – I tell all the young girls I mentor – is accepting black males no matter how junky they come and accepting black males who have been trashed with white females. They need to know they will be persona non grata once they do that – especially those with offspring by them.

    (Question: Not withstanding Dr.Welsing’s theory – why do the darkest, even continental African males – have such light offspring with white females?? Is the sperm weakened by a stronger element??…I digress….)

    There are decent-minded black males out here. Not enough it seems but none-the-less WE can’t allow them to trash us as we have been allowing, apparently.

    So unless you’re a psychiatrist, leave those black males who see redemption in white females/beige children alone. Just leave them alone. One of my teachers once said that we have to get comfortable with the understanding that MOST of us won’t make it. So let us who are about black family and justice convene with others who are also about that. With the crazy gentrification going on in Brooklyn not only am I seeing black women taking care of white babies I’m seeing super melanated dudes doting over their beige offspring. If I react every time my blood pressure would shoot through the clouds. I just look as those males as wouldn’t-be-helpful-anyway…especially since a good number actually have dark children as well that they have abandoned.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ LBM

      I agree, somehow, the deflection of black males toward non-black females has become a conversation about what black females LACK rather than the MENTALITY of the black male who is engaging in that behavior.

      Even Frantz Fanon, author of Black Skin, White Masks, admitted that he wanted a white women because he wanted to be acknowledged as white.

      He said:

      “I wish to be acknowledged not as black but as white…who but a white woman could do this for me? By loving me she proves I am worthy of white love. I am loved like a white man. I am a white man.”

      He never said it was because black females were “golddiggers” or rejected him as a young man or that they liked thugs and bad boys. He knew it had NOTHING to do with who or what black females were but EVERYTHING to do with WHO HE WANTED TO BE

      a WHITE MAN

      This is the MAIN THING that fuels the rush to be with white females. It has LESS to do with the person they are and MORE to do with what their white skin represents to the self-esteemed starved black and non-white male.

      Black and non-white females don’t even figure into that equation

      we are just collateral damage

  22. LBM says:

    DId you all get this story ?

    Jury finds female professor GUILTY of raping mute, cerebral palsy-stricken, diaper-wearing man after she claimed the two were ‘in love’ –

    Ana Stubblefield. The victim was a 34 year old black male with cerebral palsy

  23. Sharon53 says:

    This is a bit off-topic but I wanted to share it. When I first heard about this the other day, a question mark popped in my head. Now looks like the father has his doubts about this also.
    http://www.ajc.com/news/news/crime-law/handcuffed-man-who-died-after-jump-from-atlanta-to/nnxFz/

    • Timothy says:

      @Sharon53

      It is certainly a strange story. There should be an investigation independently done to see the truth. Suicide is never the answer. Also, the man was living a disturbed, reckless life. He was only 22 and he was charged with so many serious charges. There are many witnesses in the courtroom who saw what happened as well. The situation is a tragic occurrence.

      • Sharon53 says:

        @Timothy,
        Please give me your thoughts on this. I want to make some comments about the article which I think are somewhat vague when they speak of Richardson’s exact whereabouts in the court building when he supposedly jumped from a third-floor window. It only says he was at a pretrial facility for pretrial intervention proceedings but it is not clear where in the building he was. It does not really say he was actually in a courtroom where others witnessed this. It just says onlookers at the street level watched in horror. They could not have witnessed him jump if they were at the street level.
        The other thing it states is he was rearrested when he “allegedly” tried to stash a loaded gun.
        When they say “allegedly” it means something has taken place, although there is no proof. Law firms are careful to use this term all the time in cases. It seems that a janitor found a loaded .25-caliber handgun outside the building but it never really say if it was proven to be Richardson’s gun.
        They also did not waste any time going on and on about his criminal pass as if they are trying to justify something.

        • Timothy says:

          @Sharon

          The news reports say that was in handcuffs when he was found in the ground. I have my suspicions about the official story as well. What we have learned from the deaths of Michael Brown, Freddie Gray, Rekia Boyd, and others is that we can’t take the police or authorities’ words at face value. Historically, they have used deception or obfuscation in order for them to promote a narrative which is favorable to them. We have to use critical analysis when dealing with such tragedies. The official story has been said by Atlanta Police Department Public Affairs spokesperson Warren Pickard. Yet, we need independent investigations to figure out the whole truth. There should be not only an investigation of the window, but about the gun, and the circumstances before his death. People on the ground will not witness when he went out of the window immediately. They will see his body on the ground.

          My question is that even if Richardson did these things, why did the officers just allowed him to do it? Where is the security protocol? It is rare for any cops to just allow anyone in handcuffs to get up period yet alone go head first out of a window and to the ground. Even juries (who have no handcuffs) are not allowed to stand up without words from a judge or another police officer. Regardless of the truth, the officers who had the man in custody did a terrible job and they should reprimanded in my view. There is no conclusive evidence that the gun that the police found was used or was owned by Richardson. His criminal pass has been readily used by authorities to support the official story. There are missing pieces to chronologically figure out what exactly happened, especially in dealing with the facility that he resided in while in custody.

          You have many great points Sister.

          • Sharon53 says:

            @Timothy
            Thanks for your feedback. I never thought about the fact that it is rare for any cops to just allow anyone in handcuffs to get up period. Just another reason to be suspicious of what really happened here.

    • Phazex_Female says:

      “…” reportedly” admitted to having stashed the weapon.”

      Hmmm? This sounds like that catch-all term used in the “rag” magazines….”a source tells us blah, blah, blah.” Why would this man “stash” a gun and then hurl himself through a window? This makes no sense.

      Like his father, I seriously have my doubts about this too.

      Phazex_Female

    • Courtney H. says:

      @Sister Sharon53:

      I just read the article. My sister told me about this case. I have my doubts about this story, too.

  24. Sharon53 says:

    @Timothy
    I agree with your comments that “the most consistent supporters of the cause of black liberation have been black women.” On the Internet, I see many articles where I see black women on the front lines protesting police brutality, against discrimination, for Jena Six, for the family of Trayvon Martin, and against the prison industrial complex.
    However, the thing about this is I do not know anybody PERSONALLY that are on the front lines.

    I see many articles on the Internet where black women are standing up but except for black women and men that I dialogue with on blogs like this one, I do not know any black women on a personal level that I can have a conversation with about the state of black people in the world. Most of them appear to be clueless, even in my own family and we grew up in the segregated south also. I am not exaggerating about that. They seem to turn a deaf ear if I even try to bring up the subject. At one time, I and all my sisters rocked our hair natural but recently I heard one of my sisters say that women look too much like men with natural hair. What is so puzzling to me is that not too long ago, black issues were a non-stop conversation with other black women so I don’t know how and when the disconnect started.

    On the other hand, I do know a few black men on a personal level that I can talk to about these matters. However, as far as the ratio between black men and black women that are social conscious, I really don’t know.
    One thing I can say is that it is refreshing to be able to dialogue with people like you on these blogs about these issues so that I can voice my opinion and know that someone else understands what I am saying.

    • Timothy says:

      @Sister Sharon

      You have made many interesting, great comments on this issue Sister. There have been many black women and black men standing up for what is right. Also, there is the Say Her Name movement that defend the lives of black women who died by the police, vigilantes, domestic abusers, and other murderers. There is a problem with many people in the local communities having apathy or refusal to be involved in the struggle. My philosophy is that some people will wake up and some will not. It is sad that many people are turning a deaf ear to your words. Some individuals will minimize the truth. I can only offer the advice of keep on trying, especially with your family. We only have one family. In my community, most of the people doing something about problems are middle aged or older. One thing that we can do is to use our time to educate the youth since the youth are like sponges for knowledge and wisdom. They can internalize information for a lifetime.

      Also, natural hair is beautiful. I see more black women wearing it now than 15 years ago. I also don’t personally know the ratio of conscious black people along gender lines. I do feel that it is important to be honest about our condition as a community and work to reconcile relationships among black men and lack women. It is always great to community with you, Courtney, and other people here on important issues. We get what’s your saying. We have a long way to go, but we fight on. We never give up. We are fighters and our ancestors survived tribulations a whole lot greater than what we are experiencing today.

  25. Trojan Pam says:

    @ TheOriginalBlackWoman13

    Thank you, thank you, thank you!

    I had lost all hope in getting a response from any black female that comes to this site. It seems that whenever I tell us to look at our OWN BEHAVIOR, there is a defiant refusal to do so which takes the FORM of PRETENDING that I never said it.

    ?????

    I was debating whether to push this issue until I got a response because if we AS black females cannot OWN our own S (stuff) then we are NOT SERIOUS ABOUT DISMANTLING THIS SYSTEM

    This is NOT a bash-black-females conversation, this is a STARTING WITH SELF conversation. I think it is self-defeating to tell black males what they are doing wrong if we are NOT willing to look at what we are doing wrong.

    I think it is self-defeating to talk about validating each other and supporting each other when black females are mistreating OTHER black females at the same time we are spouting off about “counter-racism”

    How can we expect to be respected when we do not respect each other??

    This blog was not created to AIR personal grievances against the opposite sex.

    It is NOT social media.

    It is NOT Facebook.

    It is not about personal relationships and patting each other on the backs.

    This blog was created to assist the victims of white supremacy in dismantling the system of white supremacy

    PERIOD.

    If I am not accomplishing that then I would strongly suggest that those who are SERIOUS about solving the biggest problem on the planet –white supremacy– to find another more constructive use of their time

    In the meantime, I’m going to keep it real.

    Whenever I address issues that black males have, either I get one or two responses OR I get defensive, finger-pointing responses and a barrage of responses from black females about the wrong-headed-ness of black males.

    AND whenever I address the issues that black females have with black males AND especially with each other I am usually IGNORED as though the words did not appear on the page

    That, to me, is a HUGE RED FLAG that the people who IGNORE ME are probably the MOST GUILTY of this behavior and have NO INTENTION of changing it.

    because if we–black females– cannot behave in a civil and civilized and HUMANE manner with other black females (for whatever reason– immaturity, jealousy, envy, pettiness, insecurity, anti-black-female-ness, confusion, depression, post partum, personal issues, etc)

    then we are NOT SERIOUS ABOUT FIGHTING WHITE SUPREMACY

    If I have offended any black female (or anyone else) reading this it is time to ask yourself

    why?

  26. Sharon53 says:

    @Trojan Pam,
    Just want you to know I am not offended by your comments at all but am in total agreement with them.
    We, as black women do need to come clean about our mess also and stop the finger-pointing only at our men. Anyway, one of the reasons why some black men and everybody else beat up on us is they see there is no sisterhood among us which makes us easy prey.
    I could write a book on some things I have witnessed over the years where I have seen some mean-spirited things sisters do to each other. Some have occurred in business settings and some in my personal life. I will give you a few examples of what I mean.

    I touched on this on another blog, but years ago, when I worked around more women, I saw many times where other black women tried to get other black women fired. This happened to me a few times also. It seems as if when you first walk in the door, you are judged in the space of a few seconds. For the life of me, I cannot figure out why because these people haven’t even gotten to know you. They didn’t initially come across like the enemy, they did things the way a white supremacists would do and come across looking like a friend, inviting you to lunch and start gossiping, hoping you would take the bait. I was smart enough not to take the bait but some unfortunate women did and before long were headed for the door.

    As far as my personal life, I have two female family members who are the epitome of evil. They have tried several times to sabotage my relationship with other family members. This is definitely jealousy because they always somehow thought they were better than me but yet I made better decisions in life than they did. They thought their looks would be their ticket to success, not realizing that does not work for black women. As a result they have made some poor decisions that they are too lazy to try to recover from.

    I can honestly say I have never intentionally set out to hurt anyone, especially another black person, and really consider myself as loyal and trustworthy. It seems as if at one time, it was safe to be loyal and trusting because I grew up in a rural southern setting when everything was segregated and black people enjoyed the privilege of the extended family. However, at this point in my life, I feel I need to have a discerning spirit as to whom I trust and be loyal to. I am still kind to people and support black people, especially black businesses as much as possible but I have had to let go of some relationships that I thought were abusive and unhealthy. We as a people have tried to take on the lifestyle of white people and have become so infected with this epidemic called white supremacy that I am not sure there is a cure for. However, life would be easier if we would learn to be kind and supportive of each other and stop this back-stabbing and throat-cutting.

    • Alicia says:

      The worst thing about it is that black women who seek to attack other black women do it RIGHT IN FRONT of black men or other races. I have had times on the job where Asian or Indian women have snickered when another black female joined our circle as if they EXPECTED the black woman joining our group or discussion to attack me as a fellow black woman. awful isn’t it?

      I have also been in lots of situations where black women would whisper what I believe to be negative things about me for no reason at all while i was minding my business at events or other social atmospheres. I kept thinking to myself “what can black men be thinking if so many black women seek to be aggressive or insult/assault other black women for no absolute reason”! how will they respect us?

    • Phazex_Female says:

      @ Sista Sharon:

      Unfortunately, you are lamenting to the Choir here!

      I recall as far back as my undergrad days, how evil and mean-spirited sistas could be. When I pledged a Sorority, I saw how quickly sista-hood flew out of the window when a man came into the equation. I did learn and grow from that from observing this. Some of the variables that factor into WHY sistas sometimes perceive one another in a negative light is because of sexual competition involving MALES, jealousy, the color caste complex and the AURA of fear of white acceptance/supremacy. Frankly, “acceptance” should be sought with our OWN core racial group. Even today, these negative types of behavior are not only present in the work environment, but I observe this from a personal standpoint as well. And this behavior HAS led many sistas to NOT closely embracing one another and what I call one another or F1 (Family first) especially for the sake of survival.

      In the workplace setting, black people are “emulating” the system of white supremacy at work. And there is nothing that a racist enjoys more than (1) going to a white person to “think” for you in resolving a personnel issue and (2) seeing black people in opposition to one another. To phrase brother Neely Fuller, Jr., “Minimize conflict.” And if possible, limit your contact with those that you perceive to be racist coming across as “friend’ when it is the very opposite. This includes sistas and brothas that are only emulating these behaviors because they only empower white supremacy at the end of the day. TIP to all: “Separate your business relationships from your personal relationships. Know the difference.”Through the years, I have actually used some of Neely Fuller’s suggestions and found them to be true and helpful.

      “This is definitely jealousy because they always somehow thought they were better than me but yet I made better decisions in life than they did.”

      Due to another’s own decision-making, sometimes “you are picked out to be picked on.” Some of my students are darn near at one another’s throats with some of the behaviors that I have described above. No one should be made to suffer or a “victim” due to another’s indiscretion(s) if we are being honest here.

      “…It seems as if at one time, it was safe to be loyal and trusting because I grew up in a rural southern setting when everything was segregated and black people enjoyed the privilege of the extended family. However, at this point in my life, I feel I need to have a discerning spirit as to whom I trust and be loyal to. I am still kind to people and support black people, especially black businesses as much as possible but I have had to let go of some relationships that I thought were abusive and unhealthy. We as a people have tried to take on the lifestyle of white people …”

      This “sense of family” is what many of us are struggling to REGAIN. And, as I have mentioned before, a lot of the negative behaviors that we see in our people/communities illustrates the “symptomology” of white supremacy and racist attitudes such as disrespect, cut-throat, back-stabbing, stressed, anger and rage, drug and alcohol addiction, illegal activity, gluttony and unhealthy foods leading to obesity resulting in hypertension, diabetes, etc. just to illustrate one or two. The bottom line is that all of this IS crippling and killing our people. That is why it is so important that we as black people “wake the hell up” and become pro-active and STOP looking for other or anyone to SAVE US and put self-entitlement, false pride and false arrogance to the side.

      “Ain’t gonna happen.” I realize that in this nuclear age, that in our attempts to move away from being seen primarily as “consumers and laborers,” that we are only attempting to gain self-determination and survive. However, in the fall-out, many of our people HAVE lost “sense of family” along the way. It takes a village…to guard the fence. Other posters here have described and pointed out over and over again tactics AGAINST our people by design. I really wonder if our people will pay CLOSE attention to that or if “others” of US will stand on the front-lines while they “wonder what happened?”

      “We will just have to wait and see how strong our people really ARE.”

      In Strength and Solidarity,

      Phazex_Female

      • Sharon53 says:

        @ Phazex_Female
        I love your quotes from Neely Fuller, Jr about minimizing conflict by limiting contact with those we perceive as racist or upholding the white supremacy tenet. In work environments and sometimes in my private life, that is not always possible so I have tried other things to eliminate conflict and that is only discussing business matters while at work and with family/friend situations, I keep the conversations short and being particular about what I say and to whom. That has eliminated some problems for me but there are always those troublemakers who will tell lies or twist what you say. I don’t worry about that because I cannot control others’ behaviors.

        I was thinking about a situation once some years ago, when I worked around more black women. Because of the nature of the business, we went to lunch at different times. I was usually one of the first to go to lunch. There were about 4 young black women, young enough to be my daughters, who started harassing me because I did not offer to bring them back their lunch when I went out to get my lunch. They resorted to calling me selfish, and tried shaming me and using guilt to try to intimidate me. I notice they never did that to this white man that went to lunch at the same time as I did. If I had not been in a business environment, I would have asked them “do I look like I have slave written on my back, Willie Lynch?” The sad part is I didn’t really know them because we really did not interact that much with each other. These women should have been able to either go get their own lunch or bring their lunch to work. I know that sounds like a strange story but it happened and I thought to myself, it looks like the slave master has put the whip down and we have picked it up with each other.

        You said “Separate your business relationships from your personal relationships. Know the difference!”
        Fortunately, I have also learned to separate business and personal relationships. One is blessed if they actually have one true friend in life anyway and you definitely will not find that in corporate America.

        I see what you are saying when you said “due to another’s own decision-making, sometimes “you are picked out to be picked on.”
        I guess this could also be called the ‘pecking order theory.’ I have actually heard a family member use this term and she does not seem to see anything wrong with people practicing it. She is one of those that I can easily avoid because she lives in another state. However, people like this sometimes try to recruit allies among other family members to give you a hard time because they tend to be very manipulative. It does not make any sense to me. It is as if they hate you simply because you exist.

  27. Alicia says:

    This is a hard topic to discuss because black womanhood has been so devalued and under attack by White society wherever we are because of white supremacy. It’s hard to not get into your feelings as a black woman or not read into people having underlying “emotional/self-esteem” issues as well. I bet for the black men reading this as well, they can just put it down to us black women “being jealous”.

    The truth then is that both black men and black women do it. Not just those who were not raised around blacks and only can find “others” attractive, but those who are able to find blacks of the opposite sex (or same, nowadays) attractive.

    I think both genders in most non-white racist have been affected by white racism, oppression and constant tactics for white supremacy.

    I currently cannot relate to those who seek out white mates, because of all of the places I have lived, I have not found Whites in general to be kind of welcoming, or easy to live around. I can sort of understand Hispanic or Asian but with whites, it’s hard to “get”!

    Do some black men want to “be white men” or “feel like white men”. Yes! Do some Asian men as well and even black women or hispanic women or asian women!. We all know the answer is yes.

    Should we all move towards changing this, while being open-minded at the same time. Yes!

    Would I be ok with a board having black men discussing who black women date and being up in arms about it ( which they generally are not, probably because most know the vast majority of US prefer THEM (black men)? No!

    I don’t think people should get their feelings into who dates whom or who chooses whom or who prefers whom!

    I don’t think that’s what this topic or discussion is about but rather how White supremacy could be affecting our community.

    Many of us falsely believe the lie that most black men want or are with White women and that is a flat out lie courtesy of the white supremacist/racist/lying media! It’s a lie straight from hell and we black women need to wise up and realize it for what it is!

    Both black men and black women need to start LOVING ourselves and loving our community members!

    Whether it’s dating or everyday relationships, we need to work harder to change our communities and predicaments.

    We need to develop a culture where we RESPECT each other and celebrate ourselves and our unique racial characteristics and cultures.

    Just like all other groups, there’s alot of beauty and uniqueness in being what we call “black”! From the physical characteristics to music and other abilities, we are beautiful!

    Let’s not allow a system that is designed against us by people who hate us to poison our minds and behavior patterns!

    • Shanequa says:

      @ Sharon, Alicia & Phazex_Female & other black women
      One thing I notice when I encounter negative interaction with other black women is that they are unhappy with their lives. With the everyday struggles black women go through especially living in a white supremacy society it does get stressful & depressing. Black people have been hated on for so long by other non black people they feel the best way to takeout their angry & pain is by hating or blaming another black individuals. Hurt people hurt other people. The shackles of slavery have taught us to love everyone else rather then take the time to unite & love our black people.

      • Alicia says:

        I know that’s true Shanequa. I though, and several other black woman/girls I’ve met throughout my lifetime, do not turn our hurts into bitterness or seek to bully and hurt others. We as black people are only human. As humans we can’t always channel our jealousy, anger, or hurt into the proper paths and we may turn them to others around us. As black people though dealing with what we deal with we need to go above and beyond if we are to fight off this devil – white supremacy and attack that has beset us for 500+ years and which we are still so vulnerable to.

        We need to be better and work together. It’s hard for me to discuss any topic and only talk about Black men because as a black woman from what I see going on around me, black women are a part of the problem. Black men must make some changes but as a community we need to make changes period. Respect ourselves and each other more.

        Like someone else mentioned, I also have had family members (black men AND black women) be petty with jealousy, bitterness, and be hurtful. I’ve also witnessed this on the job and in everyday life. Wherever we are, we are dealing with this. From colorism to back-biting and crabs in a barrel syndrome, we need to do better.

        I know many of us often wonder, if there;s a God, why does he allow white communities and societies to prosper even though they oppress us and constantly seek to hurt us merely for the features God gave us. I think one reason they are is that though they don’t all get along, they work together for the greater good of their own community. They know how to come together when they need to. To avoid fighting each other for the sake of nation building.

        I recall how in a city I used to live in years ago was mostly black and latino yet the news media was all white. Even when a tiny minority-whites look out for each other. They may often hate us but they love themselves even to the point of over-rating themselves I believe because they know how important it is to work with each other.

        We need to start promoting doing the same.

        Whites often take from us like music, style etc and we can do the same to them and others. Any group wanting to progress must do what others are doing when it works. Unity, loving themselves, works for Whites. we need to try it more or we will always be under them wondering “why” and “will this ever end” because they have some sickness when it comes to skin color and race which we cannot control.

        • Courtney H. says:

          I agree.

        • Sharon53 says:

          @Alicia:
          Good observation that you notice some black women and girls do NOT turn their hurts into bitterness or seek to bully and hurt others even though we are all exposed to the same hostile, anti-black female world and are faced with some of the same challenges. There is no excuse for a sister to mistreat another sister because she is hurting. Yes misery loves company, but I hold people accountable for their behavior regardless of what they have been through, unless they have been diagnosed with a mental illness that requires them to be medicated, etc. I make no excuses for anyone because quite often, people are sneaky with their evil doings, which tells you right there, they are aware of what they are doing. And you are correct when you say “as black people though dealing with what we deal with we need to go above and beyond if we are to fight off this devil – white supremacy and attack that has beset us for 500+ years and which we are still so vulnerable to.” We do have a choice, we can take the higher ground and resist the devil.

          I agree with your statement “wherever we are, we are dealing with this. From colorism to back-biting and crabs in a barrel syndrome….” Actually I think the back-biting and crabs in a barrel syndrome are byproducts of colorism. The colorism issue is something that I really wish we would rise above. Here it is 2015 and this thing is still an issue. Some of us lay down with non-blacks and produce these bi-racial children and then turn around and complain when they get first choice. I know this was one of those elements that were started back in slavery to divide and conquer us. The house Negroes were mostly light-skinned and the field Negroes were mostly dark-skinned. However, on today’s slave plantation, they will sometimes flip the script and make it hard to distinguish the house Negroes from the field Negroes by selecting a more melanated black person for good measure. This new racism has issued us a whole new deck of cards and we are not really noticing how it is presented to us. Sadly so many of us don’t realize there is a problem but if we want to defeat these demons, we must learn to out-think them.

          You also said “if there’s a God, why does he allow white communities and societies to prosper even though they oppress us and constantly seek to hurt us merely for the features God gave us. I think one reason they are is that though they don’t all get along, they work together for the greater good of their own community. They know how to come together when they need to avoid fighting each other for the sake of nation building.”
          As far as other groups prospering at our expense, and why God allows this, I have no answers for that. But I can say this, sometimes prosperity does not always come from God, sometimes, it comes from Satan. Remember, Satan rewards his people too, especially if he thinks it keeps a person or groups of people from looking at their evil doings. One thing is for sure though, unity and people working together does benefit more than trying to go solo.
          As far we blacks are concerned, I believe God only is going to do his part. Most of the time, I believe God wants us to be a part of our own blessings from him , so therefore we must do our part and that is something we as a people are failing to do big-time. We want racism, white supremacy to go away but we are not doing what we can collectively to resist it.

      • Alicia says:

        This is a sad fact and so true. We are making gains though but there is a long way to go and we need to constantly work on securing a proper mental state given white supremacy all around us.

        I still remember growing up how the mixed race girls, even though they weren’t all that, were always being told they were pretty. heck, even I have to admit I thought that they were “special” in a way. Like the half-chinese/half-black or half-black/half other. We’ve been taught to see everything but black as superior which is crazy. It’s another reason why I stay away from mainstream (white) media because it’s negative in so many ways!

        Re: “The shackles of slavery have taught us to love everyone else rather then take the time to unite & love our black people.”

        • Shanequa says:

          @ Alicia
          I agree with everything you stated we as black women need to look at ourselves as well because we are part of the problem as well as black males. When I was a little girl I had that same mentality in believing all biracial people were pretty & will have pretty hair. I eventually grew out this stage & realize they are no different or special then us black Africans. I learn & taught myself that we as black Africans are a beautiful race of people. I start teaching myself to find the beauty of people that look like the image of myself.

        • Courtney H. says:

          I agree.

        • Timothy says:

          @Alicia

          I totally agree with you Sister.

      • Courtney H. says:

        I agree.

  28. Ghostwriter says:

    This sounds like black women are looking for an excuse to sleep with white men.

    Second, it take more than one strategy to win a war. Interracial dating does have an effect on the white race. Why do you think most white man hate to see interracial dating. Their population is in decline. You heard the Arab said their fertility rate has drop. Not a little but tremendously and thats around the whole world. They are almost barrien and becoming extinct. The europeans already done lost Europe. The majority of the people on earth are brown.

    Interacial dating is not the only solution to problem, it’s just one of the solution to the problem. It will not destruct the system at whole but will put a dent in it. As a matter the system is failing their own people. Look at how many white are dying in war. Just because they don’t advertise their losses and put in main stream media doesn’t they are not loosing.

    So keep up the faith and your good hopes. God is at work. Gen. 50:20 “what the devil meant for bad, God meant for good.” Even if we don’t see it, but our children, children will. And our blood shed would not be in vein.

    • sparkle86 says:

      Sexing our way to freedom DOES NOT work. Non whites have been mixing (raped) for hundreds of years and we are no better than we were 500 years ago. Only more identity confusion. It does not matter whether whites are numerically small. Being a minority wherever they go does NOT stop them from ruling over large numbers of non whites. They rule because they have a CODE. Non whites unfortunately don’t stop bickering long enough to develop counter racist code.

      • Ghostwriter says:

        You’re right, but it doesn’t stop the fact that they are becoming extinct. Do to Interacial relationships and homosexual r

      • Ghostwriter says:

        You’re right, but it doesn’t stop the fact that they are becoming extinct. Do to Interacial relationships and their homosexual relationships. I was just being optimistic in saying, this could be one strategy that could be use to our advantage. It has it pros and cons. We are in a time where we have use everything to our advantage and improvise. Every opportunity is a chance, turning our negative to a positive. We can’t be stagnant in our thinking. We have to flexible and fluid. Bruce Lee has a quote “Be like water my friend.” Yes, they have a code which live by. Yes, it’s a few that rulers ruling over us. But like every code and the best rulers, they all crack from the inside. Just like Rome the mighty Roman Empire.

        We have to stop living in fear, what’s going to happen is going to happen. It’s certain things in life we can’t control. I choose to focus on what I can control. For instincts we are using the blog sights to interact and dialog in countering the system. For some it maybe sex, and for others it could be economics. Everyone has their fight and their row in this. Now, it’s time to turn our disadvantages to our advantages.

        I’m not saying you wrong at all. All I’m just saying, is some of our disadvantages could be a gold mine, if we use them and channeled them in the right way.

      • Timothy says:

        @sparkle86

        I agree with you. We need to form a code and use it to fight for our liberation.

      • Trojan Pam says:

        @ sparkle86

        this is why I wrote this post, the delusion that sex with whites will “solve” the problem of racism. I have found this delusion especially common among non-white males.

        Given the evidence of CENTURIES of sex between whites and non-whites and that non-whites are still being victimized by white supremacy, I don’t know how anyone can believe SEX will free them from racism. White people’s numbers decreasing will simply make them ore determinedly vicious against non-whites — it will NOT REDUCE racism, it will increase it. And that major media is PUSHING sex between blacks and whites should be a red flag to any THINKING black person.

        those who get it, get it, those who don’t (because they are sexing whites) will not get it.

        That’s why I wrote the book, “The Interracial Con Game” which can be found in the bookstore on this site

        I did my job. the rest is up to the victims.

    • Timothy says:

      @Ghostwriter

      I will never believe that having sex with white people is somehow one strategy that we can utilize to end white supremacy. I have heard of this argument from many people and I don’t agree. Many of our people have sex, dated, married, and had affairs with white people for a long time. The problem is still here. There is a higher rate of IRs among black men than black women, but we see further economic deprivation and further hatred against black people than many years before. In Brazil, there was a policy called Blanqueamiento during the early 20th century. This policy was done by racists in order for these racists to use IRs as a means for them to “whitening up” the citizens of Brazil (thereby eliminating the black people in Brazil). Many people have use IRs and IR sex as a weapon to try to eliminate blackness in the world. Also, Hollywood and other industry entities has glamorized IRs not as a means to promote love, but as a means for these entities to ignore the promotion of healthy, stable relationships between black men and black women. Black people have always been flexible. Some black people have been flexible in positive ways in promoting the arts, engineering, architecture, teaching, positive enterprises, etc. Other black people have been flexible in negative ways like in some of them compromising, sucking up to the corporate power structure, and harboring self-hatred in order for them to get by.

      We should defeat the system of white supremacy, but we need more unity as a black people. Unity is crucial in a war for survival. Every other ethnic group promotes unity in the world. We, as blacks, in America are guilt tripped and demonized by some just because we want our children to be black people. We are demonized by many for just advocating Black Unity courageously. Racists know that any person who doesn’t want their people collectively to look like them in future generations (or harbors self-hatred) is totally trustworthy. Therefore, I will be flexible in studying different subjects, helping my people in many ways, standing up for pan-African Unity, and so forth. Yet, I will never be flexible in having sex with a person whose ancestors enslaved, raped, and brutalized my ancestors. Plus, black women are the most beautiful women in the world. Your comment of:

      “…This sounds like black women are looking for an excuse to sleep with white men…”

      is very wrong and inaccurate. Black women have shown a huge amount of loyalty to black men from social movements to economic development. Sister Trojan Pam wrote this article in the spirit of love for black people. She wants black men (and black people in general) to know that sex with white people is never a prerequisite for liberation (and how a minority of whites has oppressed people of color worldwide. So, we need to organize our powerbase economically and politically in order to fight back). This is shown in history as a minority of whites nearly exterminated the Native American population. also, whites today own a majority of the social and political systems of the world). Instead of trying to be like white racists, we should cultivate our culture, love our people, and fight against evil via solidarity. Also, tons of black women love black men and many don’t want to sleep with white men. We should have optimism for the future and also we should have realism too. You can date or marry who you want. That’s yours business. Although, I love my Blackness and I desire my future descendants to be a reflection of my black image. That’s true and real talk. Me personally, I will never date or have sex with a white woman. I will have romantic relations with a black woman. Freedom and justice means that black people must express self-determination and have a love for black people.

      • Ghostwriter says:

        Okay brother, I have a lot of love for your comment. And thank you for putting your time and energy in to enlightening me.

        Now, let’s deal with the real reason this article was written and the way this article was written. Just reading this article I can tell that it was written by a female. Which is good and I don’t have any problems with that. But like most black men, you miss the subtle message most woman is give off. This is why most black men are so easily manipulated, and don’t have respect from their women. The overall subtle message is ” It’s okay for black women to sleep with white men, but it’s not okay for black men to sleep with white woman.” Then use the fact that the conquer reward are the woman after the male has been defeated as an excuse. Which is heart of the message.

        I’m not denying that woman get rape during war by military solder. That’s true! And woman are the reward. That’s true! Because it a male nature to spread his seed to as many females as possible. Sex is a form of warfare. Sex is a weapon. Women use it all the time to get what they want. Take for an example Cleopatra the of queen egypt, was known for using her seduction for power. Even married two Roman Emperor Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony. Everyone use sex as a weapon in all nations, empires, and race. It lonely problem when black man use it. To hear the kicker as black men who are captured and the most ostracized in America society. Why the white dominant society would want to mate with the conquer male.

      • Ghostwriter says:

        Okay brother, I have a lot of love for your comment. And thank you for putting your time and energy in to enlightening me.

        Now, let’s deal with the real reason this article was written and the way this article was written. Just reading this article I can tell that it was written by a female. Which is good and I don’t have any problems with that. But like most black men, you miss the subtle message most woman is give off. This is why most black men are so easily manipulated, and don’t have respect from their women. The overall subtle message is ” It’s okay for black women to sleep with white men, but it’s not okay for black men to sleep with white woman.” Then use the fact that the conquer reward are the woman after the male has been defeated as an excuse. Which is heart of the message.

        I’m not denying that woman get rape during war by military solder. That’s true! And woman are the reward. That’s true! Because it a male nature to spread his seed to as many females as possible. Sex is a form of warfare. Sex is a weapon. Women use it all the time to get what they want. Take for an example Cleopatra the of queen egypt, was known for using her seduction for power. Even married two Roman Emperor Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony. Everyone use sex as a weapon in all nations, empires, and race. It lonely problem when black male use it. Even if it to increase his genes to survive or better his race.

        Like I said before it takes more then one strategy to win a war. Sex is just one, politics, education, economics, war, entertainment, labor, and law are the others.

        • Timothy says:

          @Ghostwriter

          Sister Trojan Pam wrote the article in order to educate black people on our real enemy and what we can do about our situation. Certainly, black men and black women should have discernment and be treated with dignity and with respect. It is not a respectable action for some to bow down with white racists. Sister Trojan Pam has never advocated black women to collectively have sex with white men at all. Her book “The Interracial Con Game” is very clear on her position on such issues. Trojan Pam is an advocate of Black Love and Black families. When a black man and a black woman unite in fighting evil, then the black community will benefit. Women do get raped by many people constantly. Rape is totally evil.

          That’s true. It is not morally right or a man to act like a brute. A real man can exhibit self-control and integrity. There is nothing wrong with a man having strength, being a leader, and fighting the good fight. Also, there is nothing wrong with a woman being strong, being a leader, and fighting the good fight as well. In other words, a black man shouldn’t dominate or control a black woman’s human autonomy. A black man and a black woman have every right to work side by side in the existence of equality to fight evil and oppression in the world. Sex can be used as a weapon as that has been shown in history. Likewise, sex can be used in a way to procreation children in a positive way too. I don’t see sex with a white woman as a way for us to have liberation.

          Liberation is caused by black people ending the system of racism/white supremacy and forming a system of justice. Black men shouldn’t follow self-hatred. I don’t view the story of Cleopatra, Julius Caesar, and Mark Anthony as representative of everybody on Earth. Harriet Tubman was a strong black woman who freed tons of slaves. Ella Baker worked in cooperatives and helped black people. These women didn’t use sex as a weapon to dominate others. They used their intellect, their strength, and their determination to stand up against oppression. Therefore, women are diverse. Women are intelligent, dynamic, creative, and heroic. Black women are the epitome of loyalty, courage, beauty, integrity, and intelligence. Black men should study the situation that exists in the world, stand up for black women, and stand up for the black community in general. It will take many strategies to cause black liberation like education, politics, economics, etc. Having sex with white women isn’t one of those strategies. I love black women and I will never lay up with a white woman. That’s my right. Also, the big picture is that solidarity among black people and rejecting naiveté is important.

          • Trojan Pam says:

            @ Timothy

            Thanks for stepping in. Once more black people understand the system of white supremacy, we will become MORE LOGICAL and will be able to fight against our oppression with a REALISTIC and SELF-RESPECTING stratigies

            • Timothy says:

              @Sister Trojan Pam

              You’re Welcome Sister.

              We certainly need a strategy to defeat racism/white supremacy. We should have realism and a logical agenda.

          • Ghostwriter says:

            Okay brother I see what’s going on. Now I see where you are coming from. You can’t when a war in the field, if you can’t win your in the homes. Now 65 to 85% of our race are sold out to the system. Let’s just get real. We as black men have been most rejected and ostracized people in this white society. The number are staggering. Look at the incarceration statistics and most for nonvolatile offense. Over 50% are unemployed. Check the death rate. This country was built off our blood, sweat, and tears. And you mention loyalty! Loyalty? Loyalty! When the world has spit in our face and told us we was good for nothing. Loyalty shouldn’t be descuss. When our blood paid the way for everybody. Our loyalty has been shown when we were being hung on trees. Our loyalty has been shown when we fight in their wars. We were loyal to everyone but have betrayed ourselves. Now if anything or if anybody will change this system it will be us. It has nothing to offer us but death. I give respect were respect due. I respect Sister Pam, she has all my support. Her work is not only great but top notch and I can’t compete with her on that. That’s her gift.

            But our loyalty should not be questioned, if anything everybody else should be questioned. And why so many state and welfare benifits. I’m just asking!? What’s in it for them!?

            • Timothy says:

              @Ghostwriter

              We certainly can’t have naiveté. We should improve the situation in our homes. Having sex with white women has nothing to do with improving the black community collectively at all. Also, the system of oppression has been responsibility for a lot of the problems in our homes and outside of our homes. Black women are the most ostracized people in the world. Malcolm X said it best: “…The most disrespected person in America is the Black woman, the most unprotected person in America is the Black woman. The most neglected person in America is the Black woman.” Also, black men have been greatly disrespected in society. Many black men suffer mass incarceration, discrimination, racism, and other evils. That is wrong. Also, we have an epidemic of black women experiencing street harassment, rape, and abuse in the world. The issues of unemployment, mass incarceration, etc. that many black man experience unfortunately never originated from black women. It originated from systematic oppression, discrimination, and other forms of oppression from the system of racism/white supremacy. Also, black men and black women were slaves and built this country.

              Yes, I mention loyalty. I will always do. I’m not backing down either. I never said that we should express loyalty to the system or to evil. I did mention that black women have been loyal to us as black men. Black women fought with black men in many slave revolts. Black women like Ella Baker, Septima Clark, etc. worked in the civil rights movement to liberate black people of both genders. Today, tons of black women have marched and protested in defense of the human rights of black males being murdered by crooked police. So, that shows a great deal of loyalty of black women to black men. I have expressed no loyalty to a racist society. I have no loyalty to white supremacy. Black women are the greatest supporters of Black men in human history.

              No one here questions the loyalty of upright, strong, and progressive black men and upright, strong, and progressive black women. People are exposing the naïve view that valuing a group of people whose ancestors oppressed our ancestors is somehow liberating. Also, only a small percentage of black people have welfare (austerity measures have decreased welfare in many states nationwide). Also, many people ignore the massive corporate welfare that the super-rich corporations receive all of the time. The crime rates in the black community have declined overall since the 1980’s. Teenage pregnancy rates have decreased in the black community since 1992. Black women have shown greatly loyalty to black men as evident in how black women has consistently supported black men leaving prison, black men in college, and other black men in many other ways. Black women are the first women on Earth and they should be respected as human beings period.

              The point is that the white racist system should end and a system of justice should be in its place.

              • Ghostwriter says:

                I don’t understand how you could compare a rape victim to someone being shot down in the streets. The person thats been rape, still have their life. While the person thats shot down don’t. Speaking of rape did know statistics show more males get rape then females. Yes, but you will never hear that on main stream media. This is some stick stuff. They even still have a lot grown man being rape in prison everyday. And I haven’t even mention what the little boys go through in their homes everyday. So man stop simp and stop playing captain save’em. A lot of these women love white supremacy. And will take pleasure bowing down to white supremacy before they bow down to you (black man). You do what work for, I do what work me. I see result in what I’m doing and talk about in my home and lifestyle. Hold it down brother, wish the best of luck.

            • Timothy says:

              @Ghostwriter

              I want to set the record straight on one issue. You mentioned: “…I don’t understand how you could compare a rape victim to someone being shot down in the streets…”

              For the record, I have never compared a rape victim to someone being shot down in the streets. Rape is totally evil and wrong. So, I don’t understand where you have gotten that idea from. Rape and murder are wrong. In America, most of the victims of rape are female. In 2003, 9 out of 10 people rape are female. According to the National Violence against Women Survey, 1 in 6 U.S. women and 1 in 33 U.S. men have experienced an attempted or completed rape. Women and men being raped is totally wrong. There is a serious problem of rape in prison.

              For the record, I don’t simp about a thing. Malcolm X told the truth about black women being the most disrespected women in the world. He allowed women in leadership positions in the OAUU. We can discuss issues like men. Real men have always promoted equality while condemning sexism at the same time. Real men will always stand for up for black women. While you talk about black men, I have talked about advocating for liberation of both black men and black women. I will always respect the dignity of black people of both genders. So, that is the truth.

              You may see what you see in your home, but you don’t see every black woman in the world and certainly black women have made great contributions in human history. So, I don’t embrace misogynoir at all. I personally won’t have sex with white woman. That’s my right. I am a black man, so I will never back down. Also, justice for black people means that black people live as a community not bowing down to whiteness. Black is Beautiful.

              • Ghostwriter says:

                Relax tough guy, there’s no need to get your shoes all tied up in a bundle. Lol! First of all me and Sister Pam done talked. She was right on the IR issue. She showed me some blogs with Dr. Frances Cress Welsing. And the information was pen point accurate. Yes, rape is bad for male or female. But when you say women go through more struggle then black men, I’m assuming it’s because of rape. If not clarify it for me.

            • Timothy says:

              @Ghostwriter

              I’m totally relaxed. When you made the comment about me of: “…So man stop simp and stop playing captain save’em. A lot of these women love white supremacy…” I have every right to respond and defend my character.I don’t simp and I do oppose misogynoir. That is my point. Black women do suffer more struggle than black men, because of rape, sexism, stereotypes, and other issues. It is totally our responsibility as black people to wake up and save as many black people as possible. We are born on this Earth to help our black people.

            • Timothy says:

              @Ghostwriter

              I am about to leave for now. I didn’t call you a misogynist. I did say that I oppose misogynoir (or hatred or a discriminatory attitude against black women). We will agree to disagree on some issues. That’s fine. That’s cool. Also, it is important that we both agree that we are against the same enemy which is racism/white supremacy. So, I do wish the best for you.

              Good Day to you.

    • Trojan Pam says:

      @ Ghostwriter

      There are no “excuses” to date white men anywhere in this blog. If that’s what you got out of this post, then I don’t know what to tell you.

      I have three questions for you.

      1. If IR sex had a negative impact on the white race why are they promoting it? And what benefits do blacks receive from it?

      2. what negative effect does IR dating have on the white race? Please give examples.

      3. Are you sexually involved with a white female?

      (by the way, thanks for validating the subject of this post)

      • Ghostwriter says:

        Hi, Pam by the way I have the up most respect. And I can’t discredit Noone work on this blog including the work y’all done for black in general.

        Now, to answer your questions. I’m South Carolina

      • Ghostwriter says:

        Hi, Pam by the way I have the up most respect. And I can’t discredit Noone work on this blog including the work y’all done for blacks in general.

        Now, to answer your questions. I’m from South Carolina right in the heart of where Racism was perfected. I know how these people feel and I know they think. I’m 28. My mother dated a white man for 13 years and they are still together. My father on the other has a son who’s mixed. By the way I have the best parents life can offer. They are all dark skin including me and I never lacked for nothing. I dated in and out my race. Am I with a white girl now? No! What effects IR has on the white race? Population loss. Can’t have white supremacy without white people. Why do whites promote IR? That’s just there to cover their trail to make them seem not racist. Like they Obama in the presidential seat it’s to cover their racism. Yes some whites are into IR dating but not the majority.

        I hope your questions was answer. Thanks!

        • Trojan Pam says:

          @ Ghostwriter

          I strongly suggest you read my books, “Trojan Horse: Death of a Dark Nation” AND “The Interracial Con Game”

          White people NEVER DO ANYTHING that does not promote the system of white supremacy. NEVER.

          IR sex between blacks and whites benefits whites and one of the major reasons is it divides and conquers the black male and black female.

          They have fooled and bamboozled their victims into thinking IR sex works against white people but NOTHING could be further from the truth.

          Consider this: In the United States less than a few hundred people control OVER 300 MILLION. Numbers mean NOTHING if those numbers are DIS-UNIFIED and IGNORANT about the system they are trying to defeat.

          Once you read all my reasons as to how IR sex harms non-whites and benefits whites, we can continue this discussion

          Until then it would take too long in a post on this blog.

          Are you game?

          • Ghostwriter says:

            Cool, I check it out and buy it from Amazon. Thanks. I know, I can be rough around the edges. It is what it is though. But I respect your writing. Thank you are one the best, at what you do. I can’t take that from you. ISIS paper by Dr. Frances Cress Welsing is the only book I read on racism that makes since to me. Now I’m going to give your a try.

            Peace.

        • Shanequa says:

          @ Ghostwriter
          You can’t be against white supremacy while sleeping in bed with your enemy. When a black man or woman date outside of their race you are part of the problem, and you’re supporting white supremacy the system that is destroying our people. Black men & women who date interracially aren’t building a nation with their own people but are traitors to their people. For one by breeding with non black people you’re diluting your black African bloodline, and it cause more confusion within the community especially the black individual who date outside of their race. Interracial relationships or having biracial children has never helped the black community it only brought us more confusion & separated black men & women from build a real nation. Furthermore, if you’re a black man or woman dating interracially you have already lost points with me.

          “The only revolution in which the goal is loving your enemy is the Negro revolution.”
          ~Malcolm X

          • Ghostwriter says:

            I don’t how! I think they call it the one drop rule. Once you are mix you’re black. I don’t thank brown skin, red bone, or light skin people are confuse. The red and yellow bones know they have some white in them. But they all know they’re black.

            Know the people in the islands have this type of problem a lot. I could see were you coming from. You have a very valid point and I think you are right. White people know their own and negro going to be a negro.

            • Shanequa says:

              @ Ghostwriter
              “I think they call it the one drop rule. Once you are mix you’re black.”

              We as black Africans need to stop accepting the Europeans one drop rule if you have one black African parent & a non black African parent you’re biracial. If other races don’t accept these half black biracials why do we have to be the garbage can & take the trash others don’t want. The one drop rule was forced on us to accept these biracials in our race. My great great grandmother was biracial but she was a product of rape but at the end of the day she’s biracial. I have several biracial cousins I don’t consider them black but what they are biracial. I’m for supporting biracial people if they are willing to fight & die for the struggle of our people.

              • Ghostwriter says:

                Now Shaneque, you done step into something deep. I don’t know, if I’m in the position to say who’s black and who’s not. If that’s the case are we gone kick the light skin out too? I mean, that’s a heavy topic and I don’t want to over step my boundaries. I have love all my people and I have a heart for them. Because I see the greatness in them.

                You are right some don’t identify with our struggle. But when the system they will fall with it. I’m not discrediting your idea but that’s a little too far fetch for me.

              • Timothy says:

                @Shanequa

                I agree with you totally.

              • sparkle86 says:

                One point on the one drop rule is we have to look at the historical context on why the one drop rule came to be unlike other areas around the world where there is a designated mixed race group. This isn’t just about purity. The United States is the only place in the diaspora where whites constitute the majority.

                Everywhere else in the hemisphere, whites are numerical minority. They do not have the numbers to maintain everything on their own. If whites in latin america imposed the one drop rule, they would never get the system to run as efficiently. They NEED buffers and so they “allow” exceptions. The three tier system. Whites in America do NOT need buffers. America has always had POOR whites to do the dirty work so what use is a mixed race person? Of course, they would be cast aside because This was NEVER about recognizing heritage or ancestries.

                This is COLD HEARTED calculus on how best to run the system as efficiently as possible. Where needed, You can designate some people, notably your offspring (because they might have the most loyalty to you) to keep the rest of the non whites down because no one at the end of the day wants to be at the bottom.

                If you read up on the history preceding the Haitian revolution, mixed race people were given privileges that soon, they began to acquire wealth in slave ownership as well but the poor whites HATED them for it. The richer whites felt so secure in their place that in the last decade prior to the Revolution, the rich whites started to revoke the privileges of rich mixed race people. They were slowly being erased. You see this in Louisana after the Americans took over with the Creoles. The three tier system was dissolving. Of course, the majority blacks knew the whole system is predicated on them being at bottom and revolted. The rest is history.

            • Trojan Pam says:

              @ Ghostwriter

              I have created a new post just to illustrate my earlier posts to you.

              https://racismws.com/2015/10/11/a-dr-welsing-moment/

              The excerpts were taken from two of my books.

              Have you signed up on the mailing list for this blog?

              • Ghostwriter says:

                OKAY, you got me! I just got finished listening to the blogs. You were right. That was on point!

  29. […] Can Oppressed Males SEX Their Way to Freedom? […]

  30. Sharon53 says:

    @Ghostwriter
    I have been reading all your posts and the responses to them and I don’t think anything that much can be said further. However, I do want to make a few comments.

    I agree with other posters on this blog when they say we cannot sex our way to freedom. Even if whites’ numbers are becoming a minority, it does not stop them from ruling the majority. This has been demonstrated time and again. Unfortunately, non-whites are enabling this. Everything whites do, we try to emulate even if it’s to our detriment.

    This race-mixing mostly creates confusion with non-whites. I see this a lot in my own family. I am really disturbed by the upsurge of IR marriages among my nieces and nephews. We have had 5 marriages in the last 2 years and they have all been to Caucasians. I also notice when they do this, they become increasingly isolated from the rest of the family.

    White supremacy is a flawed system and I agree that codes can be cracked but who is going to crack the code if the victims are so dis-unified and ignorant about white supremacy like most non-whites are.

    You struck a nerve with me when you responded to a poster by saying “I don’t understand how you could compare a rape victim to someone being shot down in the streets. The person that’s been rape, still have their life. While the person that’s shot down don’t.”

    You came across as being insensitive to rape victims. I don’t think we should get off into who has suffered the most in situations like this. Yes, the person who has passed on does not have their life but the person raped might as well be dead. Rape victims have been known to take their lives because of the trauma. And I have seen rape victims flounder for years because of the trauma. It is as if they are part of the living dead because you actually cannot see the pain a person suffers from because of emotional and mental abuse.

    One other thing, I don’t mean any disrespect but are you sure you are black. When I first saw your moniker “Ghostwriter”, I began to wonder.

    • Timothy says:

      @Sharon53

      I agree with you that rape victims should be given compassion and empathy. Rape is evil and it is completely an abomination. Rape is a horrible crime and it causes psychological and emotional turmoil towards its victims.

      Have a Great Day Sister.

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